Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss June 2010

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afm- i had a scare yesterday had some bad pains, but only twinges today which is good, getting bloods taken friday so fingers crossed for some even better numbers will be 6 days since my last blood test last time they were at 760 so will be nice to see numbers at about 3000 lol. getting excited about next friday too i cant wait to see this little one and its heart beat flickering away, and i know it will ease my nerves too, but its still over a week away and i am eager lol!

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I felt cold just reading your post. Nice that you are all in the same room. My ds name is Thomas Lincoln! close LOL. I bet your scan is just as lovely as you imagine! Cant wait to hear all about it!

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Its an all about me post ladies, apologies in advance.
We had a scan today for what was meant to be almost 9 weeks. Bubs had no heartbeat, no bloodflow and no movement. I basically have to wait for the miscarriage to begin or have D&C MOnday.
For all you lovelies UTD this will not happen to you, all will be perfect with your bubbys coming at the right time and beautiful in every way
xxxxx

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Oh Millyd: My heart hurts for you and your family. You have been through far too much already this year. I am so sorry that things could not have gone well for you this time! I cant imagine the grief you are feeling at the moment! Wish there was more i could do for you!

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Oh Millyd - I am so so sad for you and your family. Bless your angel. Give yourself time to grieve my love and go gently. You are well and truly in my thoughts.

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Oh Dory you always are so gentle. I have no idea have you still have the strength to be so kind! You are a wonderful lady and i know i will be a complete mess when i read your birth announcement! Everyone deserse their babies when they are born but some people, i dont know, it just feels more special!

AFM: Just too much sad news today! So sorry again!

Possum and MillyD - I am shocked and saddened for both of you. I will be thinking of you ladies and praying you have the love and support you need to get through this yet again.

millyd and possum I am so sorry for the both of you. Not to copy what anyone else has said but you both will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Oh MillyD and Possum - I am so sorry to hear such a sad and heartbreaking news from both of you. May God give your Angel bub peace and gives you the strength to cope-up in such a tough time. I am praying for you to God. Look after yourself MillyD and Possum and hope you recover soon mentally, physically and emotionally.
Big Hugs and love sending your way girls.

Ric

Hugs millyd, so sorry to hear xoxox

I don't post for a few days n I come to read heart ache

MillyD and Possum my heart goes out to both of you, when I read ur posts I started to cry - all my love support and positive thoughts go out to u n ur familes!!!

I hope that in only a short time u both will be back here..

All my love HPL xxx

This is a bit of a weird one. Anyone had a discharge that looked a bit like snot? (sorry if that's TMI) It's definitely a yellow in colour, not brown or red. I don't seem to have any sign of infection and I'm worried it could be a sign of the mucus plug disintegrating. I'm very concerned as of yesterday my breasts no longer hurt and I don't feel sick anymore. After having two missed miscarriages I think this could be another.

Milly and Possum, I am soooo sorry to read of your losses. My heart is breaking for you both. I really hope you both have good news again really soon.

SammyP - I've had lots of that this pregnancy, don't worry

Glad to hear the rest of you are doing well (aside from some M/S and unsympathetic hubbys) and have been having good scans and bloodwork.


Haven't been able to get on much lately as our computer finally bit it. (I'm on hubby's work laptop). Plodding along and really looking forward to being done. I'm soooooo tired these days I don't know how I'm functioning. My SPD is getting worse every day too and by bedtime I can barley move. On the bright side my M/S has finally let up (lol with 3 weeks to go) but now I have trouble eating because there is just no room in there anymore. My 2.5 year old can eat more than me! Dr wasn't too thrilled with me as I've only gained 2lbs this PG but since I have a bit extra to spare he wasn't too worried. We Just started bathroom renos so hopefully they will be done by the time I go into labour, I really want a tub in time!! Thankfully my DH has been really great lately and is letting me get as much rest as possible (he's taken on extra housework and entertaining DH).

Hope you all continue to do well, I don't want to read any more bad news, just good news :)

Milly - i'm so sorry to hear your news. Life can be so painful sometimes but i honestly believe everything happens for a reason and i hope a beautiful blessing comes your way soon.

hi girls i have a question, i am certain i have an infection either UTI or something, and a doctor yesterday wouldnt check to see, today i had some burning, but i cant be certain but maybe a slight tinge in my cm of blood, i cant be 100% it was to hard to make out, but has me worried, should i just wait this out, or go to hospital and get treatment, how bad can a UTI be if left untreated or should i wait until next week and get in with another doctor. im so upset that doctor didnt listen to me, i have been taking cranberry tablets but down their is alot dryer feeling even thou i have alot of cm from pregnancy.

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This is a bit of a weird one. Anyone had a discharge that looked a bit like snot? (sorry if that's TMI) It's definitely a yellow in colour, not brown or red. I don't seem to have any sign of infection and I'm worried it could be a sign of the mucus plug disintegrating. I'm very concerned as of yesterday my breasts no longer hurt and I don't feel sick anymore. After having two missed miscarriages I think this could be another.

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This happens to me each pregnancy. I have had it checked out before and all is ok!

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Milly and Possum, I am soooo sorry to read of your losses. My heart is breaking for you both. I really hope you both have good news again really soon.

SammyP - I've had lots of that this pregnancy, don't worry

Glad to hear the rest of you are doing well (aside from some M/S and unsympathetic hubbys) and have been having good scans and bloodwork.


Haven't been able to get on much lately as our computer finally bit it. (I'm on hubby's work laptop). Plodding along and really looking forward to being done. I'm soooooo tired these days I don't know how I'm functioning. My SPD is getting worse every day too and by bedtime I can barley move. On the bright side my M/S has finally let up (lol with 3 weeks to go) but now I have trouble eating because there is just no room in there anymore. My 2.5 year old can eat more than me! Dr wasn't too thrilled with me as I've only gained 2lbs this PG but since I have a bit extra to spare he wasn't too worried. We Just started bathroom renos so hopefully they will be done by the time I go into labour, I really want a tub in time!! Thankfully my DH has been really great lately and is letting me get as much rest as possible (he's taken on extra housework and entertaining DH).

Hope you all continue to do well, I don't want to read any more bad news, just good news :)

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Oh i felt sore just reading your post. So glad that you only have 3 or so weeks left! Pity the MS has stuck around so long. I bet you have a lovely big feed in those first few days after bubs is born! Happy birthing!

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hi girls i have a question, i am certain i have an infection either UTI or something, and a doctor yesterday wouldnt check to see, today i had some burning, but i cant be certain but maybe a slight tinge in my cm of blood, i cant be 100% it was to hard to make out, but has me worried, should i just wait this out, or go to hospital and get treatment, how bad can a UTI be if left untreated or should i wait until next week and get in with another doctor. im so upset that doctor didnt listen to me, i have been taking cranberry tablets but down their is alot dryer feeling even thou i have alot of cm from pregnancy.

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Thats is really annoying that the Dr didnt listen to you! I am no Dr but you shouldnt wait another week. At the moment you probably have a simply bladder infection, if left untreated you could end up in a lot more pain and kidney trouble. BUT there is an easy answer. YOur Chemist. No one ever thinks of them but they have almost as much training as a GP, they are free and they know what they are talking about when it comes to medicines! I am a nurse and i always try them 1st before the GP and you really dont need to go to hospital for something so simple. Good luck and i hope ive helped.

AFM: Nothing to report really LOL. Went to a cooking class today. Was a lot of fun. Starting to get that nice heavy feel in the tummy now and know it wont be long before i feel bubs move! I cant wait!

Hope you are all well!

M04, Dory, MillyD, Ashie, Iona Macca, Tegam, MurrayCod, Kitfaerie, SammyP, Angelfish, Ric, HPL, Twin Sister and anyone i missed: I had to thank you all personally for writing such lovely supportive posts. It means a lot to me. I'm doing ok: sad but accepting that it has happened and trying to tell myself i will still have a baby, just a few months later than i thought. I think in some ways though that it hasn't sunk in yet; right now i'm distracted just by dealing with physical side of the m/c itself.

MillyD: very sad to see that you have lost your baby too. You have been through so much this year. I am thinking of you.

I'll keep popping in to see how everyone's doing sometimes and hope to be back here again in future.

thanks tegam im going their tomorrow for some ural so fingers crossed it helps!
possum- once again im so sorry hun, i know it must be hard but we are here to listen if you ever need it xxx

afm- doing alright tonight done nothing but relaxed tonight which is good, but cant keep my feet up for ages two little boys keep me on my toes! dh has been such a trooper, he tells me that this baby will stay, and says with the m/s you've had today little will want to hang around and give you grief lol, which is true only ate one meal today which was dinner earlier today been very gaggy lol keep a drink close by cause it would hit without warning, thank god i havent actually thrown up yet i've come so close so many times but my drink is still keeping it at bay. hopefully having some waffles tonight i really would like one or two lol.

ashie- I have the same thing were your not getting sick but the feeling is there for me its basically there all day. But on the other hand i dont mind it becosue to me its a good sign last time i hade no m/s or light headedness.

afm i am trying to have a quiet weekend becosue the two monsters come here and trying to get some cleaning done. Its suppost to be 98 degrees here this coming week so i am hidding even more with the ac

Ashie - your dr didn't do a urine test? Seriously? They can do one in office in literally seconds with a dipstick to look for blood and white blood cells. What a complete moron! I would definately get it checked as left untreated they are REALLY painful.

Tegam - thanks :) I'm so miserable right now I just can't wait to be done. Oooh cooking class sounds fun, what did you guys make?

Possum - It's nice to hear you sounding so positive. I hope you are ok and still positive once it really sinks in. You will most definately have a baby still, I hope it doesn't take too long and the next one is sticky.

angelfish- yep i have that feeling lol, on and off all day i start with a feeling in the throat and it gets worse throughout the day, fizzy drink has kept it at bay lmao! just a sip keeps me from further heaving and i havent actually sicked yet lol, been given tablets just in case it stops working as my good ob doc is hard to get an appt specially at a drop of a hat worse m/s yet, never had it this bad with boys! also i have no gas lol, only wind pains when i gots to go number twos lmao!

twin sister- i know i couldnt believe it either! it was cause it didnt burn at the time only burnt once or twice but i have had some pains near my kidneys and wanted it checked out, im going to complain to my ob when i see him 2nd aug its not on hey! chemist tomorrow for ural or what ever they would like me to take thats safe, i've been taking cranberry tablets too and keeping fluids up.


oh i am a huge horror movie fan, but one movie i really didnt like and now im certain ill have night mares lmao, im emotional too, watched a baby story on discovery health on foxtel and watching bubbas being born makes me cry, oh how it gets me eager that i am pregnant, and hopefully this one stays its my last baby im allowed to have so im not complaining about all the side effects im so happy about them lol, i am so grateful to this little one, also just above my c section scar its popped out already! its only the teeniest bit but you can feel it my sisters and mum and dh had a feel tonight they are so excited!

Possum - you are most welcome.... I am amazed you had the strength to drop in. Thinking of you and hoping to see you again soon ...hoping you don't have a missed m/c and your cycles come back quick smart. I meant to say any retention... sorry sweetie.

SammyP - heya - I know the other girls said it was ok for them, but I would err on the side of caution. If the discharge is different for you together with your other changes, theres no harm to get it checked out.

Ashie - can you go to another GP? I don't get UTI's but my friends say there's just so painful, so better to try and get rid of it. Pregnancy brings enough challenges - you don't need another.

Twinsis - 37 weeks - OMG girl that is very cool. How are you feeling about it all?

Hi to everyone else, sorry for the limited persies. Not much going on here.

Dory - I'm so done LOL. I'm so uncomfortable I'm constantly on the verge of tears. I so hope this baby comes a bit early.

Ashie - did you manage to get your UTI checked?