Pregnancy after miscarriage or loss ~ November 2010

Melster, get the scan. If they can't see anything, you'll just get another one, but at 6w3d you should at least be able to get a measurement, and check that there's nothing else wrong.

Fingers crossed for you.

ferrals~ no you have not crossed the line at all. The kids are here to see him they need him. Nothing is written in stone that i am going to be with there father forever.And these kids need to feel wanted most of all.

Melster - how scary for you hun :hug: Blood is the worst thing to see. I had a huge bleed at 9+3 with this baby, was convinced s/he had gone, but all was OK. Had bad, sharp pains with the bleeding too so thought it was all over. I'm so glad that the bleeding has pretty much stopped. I think you should go and get a scan anyway hun, just to know.

HB
xxxx

Mel at 6w3d you should see something. Even it is only a gestational sac and fetal pole but usually by now there is a flickering heartbeat too.
I did have a long post typed up early but my DS1 decided to hit the keyboard and the whole lot went :(

has anyone ever just known that are no longer pg with a live baby? Last night I just had this feeling and so today I dind't take my B6 to ss if I had any m/s and I don't feel too bad. Roll on Monday.
sorry for the me post again. DS1 does not let me sit here long enough to read, remember and post. add to that he is not well and DS6 is home from school not well too. so I am off..
hugs

Hello Ladies,

Though i might join you in here. I know some of you from the TTC threads :hello:

Found out on Wednesday that i am pregnant again! Very exciting, but terrifying news! I have had 4 m/c's with the most recent one being in June this year. I am trying to remain positive but, as you all would know, easier said than done!

I haven't read much of the thread so far but i am sure i will get to know you all in no time.

AngelicDragon, just wanted to say- While i was pregnant with DS (and super, super paranoid!!) i woke up one morning and i thought for sure that the baby had died. I had had miscarriages before that so i knew the feeling. My BB's had stopped hurting, i didn't feel sick... i was devastated. I even told my DH that i had lost the baby cause i was so sure i had.... anyway, fast forward to now, DS is almost one year old and healthy as! My symptoms came and went so many times.. it was terrifying! But that is actually a normal part of pregnancy. So please don't stress yourself.. You are pregnant until proven otherwise! xx

Melster, i wrote to you in the TTC thread.. :hug:

Look forward to getting to know you all!

xx

melstar - you really need to go and have a scan, too much stress for you just wondering what is going on in there!
I just wanted to let you know I had some spotting/bleeding when i was 9w 1day... it scared the crap outta me because it was simular to the last year when i had m/c. It was 99% brown stuff but there were a few specks of pink, lasted 24hrs... i paged my ob and he saw me straight away... everything was fine... bubby was safe n sound! I have had another scan since then at 10wks and all still perfect! I was convinced id lost it but we are still cruising along... I really didnt beleive that i could be one of those ppl to bleed and still be ok cause i too associated and bleeding with bad but im proof that it can just happen for no rhyme or reason! Have a scan and see what is going on, i know your scared but you can do it ok!!!

special love xx

HoneyBee - Hello! I just remembered i didnt reply to you the other day! Thanks for the congrats on the iui bubby! We are so thrilled and feel very blessed that we it worked 1st time for us!!! only 10 sleeps till our NT scan not that im counting!! :D Love your avatar by the way! So beautiful!!! xx

thanks ladies....my mum convinced me to go....i had a spot more blood......so really there have been a few drops but boy there scary...i rang my ob and i think he is on theatre and he is meeting me here....im completely ****ting myself and my heart is about to pop out my chest...........im in no way positive...........all that keeps repeating is......sorry there no hb...............please god...please god....make my baby ok.........please please.......make it just a small bleed.........

Best of luck melster. Please let us know as soon as you have had scan. I am really hoping there is a beautiful little hb flickering away. xxx

thinking of you Melster!

Angel: Not going to reasure you but whilst i was totally devistated at being told there was no heartbeat with my first lost i have to admit i wasnt suprised. Dont know what it was but i just knew :( I hope you are just feeling fear.... Hugs

Hi Girls,

Sorry no persies today I'm exhausted from cleaning up this heck hole.. lol. I have been reading though so hopefully I won't fall too far behind. :)

Just wanted to wish Melster luck and let you know I'm thinking of you hun. :hug:

yes....we have a hb and a baby....im measuring 6 weeks and 1 day tho.....have to go back next week for another scan....he said i could have some blood just below my placenta....im a bit shaken tho

I LOVE Heartbeats! YAY Melster, focus on the positive huni, its all any of us can do!

Mel that is still a good measurement as O days can vary the dates a bit. They base all their measurements on a perfect 28 day cycle with O being cd14. So being early or late a few days will throw out their dating. It's great to hear you have a heartbeat :)

Still scared but thank you for trying to hope for me.

Yay Melster! Good to hear! xx

Got my hcg levels back - 73 @ 4 weeks. Nurse was a bit concerned that they are too low. hmmmm.

Stoked im sure you cant remember but mine were VERY low for this baby! I was spot on with my dates too seeing i had the early scan for the ectopic. i have had a very H&H pregnancy....

Melster - That's great news! Being a couple of days out isn't a big deal, 2 days in the scheme of things isn't a huge difference at all. Now put your feet up and rest and think snuggly embie thoughts :)

Stoked - Are you having repeat bloods done? Don't give up hope yet, as Tegam said it doesn't mean things won't end well.

thanks ladies....u r amazing beautiful people.......thanks so much for the support...

stoked....what should ur levels be at....? what do u have to do now? will they check ur blood again? how u feeling about it

angelic....do u find out monday whats going on?

Sorry ill catch up soon on everyone....i have just been a bit freaked out...