i have never experienced your pain, i have always been told boy for every scan with DS1 and boy for all my u/s with DS2 i do know that they arent allowed to say 100% cause if they are wrong that way you cant sue them for being wrong
i hope you find out soon
I know they're not meant to say with 100% certainty what the gender is, but a mate of ours went for a 20 week scan (she's due in just over a month!) and she got told that if she's handed a girl its the wrong baby. There's NOOO way you could think that its a girl. We saw the u/s pictures (they got about 30, i'm soo jealous!) and its an awesome picture, you can see the penis as clear as real life. It was amazing.
Jas - not trying to find out the genders (we didn't tell either) but do you know if they are identical (one placenta)? If they are, you'll get heaps more scans that normal. We had about 10 during my pregnancy and I checked everytime "Are they still girls?? :)"