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And the dreaming stopped for a while. And now its started again. I dreamt last night that DH cheated on me and I found out. Worst feeling ever. I'm awake and now crying yet again. Over this dreaming thing. :( more like nightmare :(
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I always had dreams of DH cheated on me (have only had one so far with this pregnancy) sometimes he would be cheating on me and I was there in my dreams of course, like you I would wake up an absoloute mess they felt so real. I wondered if its cos I don't feel as attractive with my big belly, heartburn and all the other joys that come with pregnancy.
Maybe my DH just needs to be more romantic so I just stop having these dreams. Mind you the other dreams I have are of me with my ex boyfriend (I don't tell him about those ones)
Grrrr keep having the same dream. It's so annoying does it mean I don't trust DH or something?
I dreamt that he cheated on me with a girl over in Sydney (why Sydney I don't know I don't know anyone there although he was on a dating site just before we met but canceled his membership completely when we got together). I've had the same dream for the past two nights.
I've dreamt that he's lied and betrayed me and I've moved out and tried to get through the remainder of my pregnancy by myself and living at my mums with all the baby gear I've brought.
It all seemed so real. It sucks. I hate dreams like this. Now I'm wide awake. And thinking ..don't be stupid Lys... It's only a dream...
:( I need something and fast to stop this from happening. Do dreamcatchers work? I'm desperate.
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Another dream and I actually woke up screaming last night. I'm really concerned this one felt so real.. might have to look into talking to him about it actually.
I dreamt that he was basically ignoring me and the baby. He was going out with mates all the time, refusing to spend time with me (which has been a problem in the past seeing as he's only home basically a week of every month)
Sex was also brought up in the dream, but I made it out to be that he didn't want to touch me... (not like irl ...that I was the one who didn't want it because I'm scared of bleeds afterwards and don't feel the most attractive right now...)
No idea what to do. I actually woke myself up by yelling to DH in my sleep.... Maybe I should talk to DH. Maybe im already insane and nothing can help this... Lol
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What r dreams lol. DS is sick atm so I am not getting much sleep and when I do its usually about sick babies
I hate the cheating or horrible feeling dreams toward DH/DP's when I have those I tend to wake up and give DH a horrible look or elbow him then roll over and keep my back to him and the poor guy doesn't know what he's done wrong.
talk to him, hun.
he's your man, he's your bumps dad, he will want to help and comfort and protect.
mega hugs.
you're not crazy - dreams can be incredibly vivid and upsetting while preggers.
xx
What the lovely wise Peanutter said - talk to him, let him know how you're feeling about these dreams and give him the chance to reassure you. Maybe explain to him that pregnancy dreams are very vivid and you're struggling to keep reminding yourself that it's just a dream so he can help remind you as well.
I've spoken to him. He works away at the moment so hes not always beside me...
But he's assured me everythings normal and he still loves me even though he realises I'm scared about dtd.
He said he'd keep reassuring me they are only dreams and that they aren't real. Never in his life would he ignore his child I know that.
It just all seemed so real. He just keeps reminding me that this pregnancy is messing with my hormones and causing vivid dreams. But nothing I do will make them go away, and as long as I tell him about them he will reassure me all I need :)
Feeling a bit better now xx
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LD me too! I have one intense nightmare every second week or so that I wake up crying or shouting aloud from. They are normally about my family- sister, parents, extended family or my husband. I have to protect them from something or I lose them/get lost/they are separated from me, or I have huge fights with them. I never usually dream like this - only since I've been preg.
all the time!!
however i do have wierd dreams even when i am not pg and seem to remember them
I'm so glad you've had that chat, and he understands that you may continue to need that reassurance if you keep having those dreams ...
:pray: that now it's out in the open, the dreams will have no more space in your head for fearmongering, and they'll rack off ...
:hug:
I know this thread is older now but I had to comment here. I have had such a wide range of strange dreams since I've been pregnant and I never have dreams. They have ranged from sex dreams, to scary horror dreams and then the other week I dreamt my deceased father was with me helping me dress our baby.
These pregnancy hormones are crazy!