Are you telling people the gender?

well i know i always have to find out but we might keep it secret dunno yet im not pg yet but we have picked a name for a future girl but some ppl already know it

We're still up in the air with deciding if we should find out, but I recon we will end up doing it. 3weeks to decide! If we do find out we will definately tell everyone as we are having a baby shower a bit later on, and I really dont want a bunch of lemon or mint coloured things!!!

For what its worth we wanted to know with DS but we had a number of scans that said he was a boy and then a girl and so on.

I finally worked out a reply that made people laugh and move on: "Well we're fairly certain its human and probably ours, but a puppy would be great also"

This time around we found out and wanted to tell as it is clearly a girl but now everyone is all "well we will wait till its born just in case" - which is kinda upsetting too in its own way.

Mumintraining thanks for making me smile! :)

For us, it's not big deal whether other people want to know or not. DH & I always find out, if people want to know we'll tell them. If they don't want to know, we won't tell them. It's our baby, not theirs, so it's not really a big thing for them whether it's a girl or boy whereas it is for dh & I.
Well that's my opinion anyway.