Postscript to being "overdue"
Hi, thought I should put the happy ending to my long wait into this thread to give all you overdue ladies a perspective from afterwards. Since the last post I made, my next appointment was scheduled for Monday 2nd Feb, when I would be 12 days over and they were planning to induce me. I was feeling extremely stressed and upset walking into the hospital for this appointment, as I really didn't want an induction at that point. After an internal and about 1/2 an hour of electronic foetal monitoring to get a good baseline trace, they reported that I was 2cm dilated, but baby still wasn't engaged. I certainly didn't feel any signs of labour, so they let me go home and book to come back on Wednesday afternoon (14 days over). I was soooooo excited to be allowed to wait until 14 days. Had an awesome day enjoying the soon-to-be-gone freedom of being baby-free and knowing I had succeeded in giving baby and I the best possible chance of having a natural start to labour.
Tuesday, started to feel impatient again, to try and avoid induction the next day. So I walked and walked despite heat and exhaustion (pretty tiring carrying a 42 week pregnancy) to try and bring on labour. Finally labour did start late Tuesday night, and I delivered a very healthy baby boy on Wednesday 4th Feb, exactly 14 days overdue. The best bit, is the midwives held him up when he was born and couldn't believe how much vernix he had on him. They said he looked like a baby born on it's due date or a couple of days early. He was not wrinkly or overcooked at all, not even a little bit. So my instincts were right, that he needed a bit longer in there before he was ready to come out, and I'm so glad I managed to hang on until labour started naturally.
If you are feeling like your body and your baby just aren't quite ready, trust that feeling. Or if you really are feeling like you can't go on and need to get the baby out, then go with that, as long as you're fully informed of the increased risk of other intervention after induction. Either way, trust your instincts and be well informed. Then whatever decisions you make will be the best ones for you that you could make at the time, and that's what matters.
PS. Get used to the idea of the baby not having read the manual and conforming to your plans and preferences, as there's usually plenty more of that to come ;)
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Update: graduated from post dates yesterday.
Baby boy born 7/11 at 5:45pm. 3.8kg. 54cm long and head 35cm. DH and I got very busy DTD the night before and that seems to have done the trick.
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