Newbie - need ICSI and confused - please help with some questions!
Hello everyone, this is my first post here and im really hoping that someone can possibly help with my questions. Ive only had a few days to take in our situation being that my partner has severe sperm issues and that we need ICSI and really need some help understanding a few things.
Im 27 and my partner is 33, we have been TTC for just under a year. I have a prolactinoma (benign pitutary tumour) which we though was causing us the problems however its fully under control, im ovulating and everything seems to be fine with me.
We have been advised that due to my partners low sperm count (1st SA - 86,000. 2nd SA - 4million (!!! Bit of a difference but still very low) and very poor motility - 6%) that our only hope of having a baby is to have ICSI. We saw Dr Hossam Elzeiny at Melbourne IVF last Thursday and came away unbelievably confused and upset! However after reading 99% of the posts on here I feel much more confident about the process and what it involves (thanks) but still have a few questions that im hoping some of you who are going through the same thing might be able to help with.. :pray:
First of all we were advised by the doctor that the approx cost of the full treatment will be around $12,000. Our massive problem is that we are both from the UK, we are here on a temporary working visa and although we have been here for 2.5years and intend to stay for the next few years at least (possibly even long term with Perm Res but it depends on how we can cope being away from family for such a long time) and we have the Medicare reciprocal agreement, this only covers urgent medical costs, bloodtests, GP visits etc and not ICSI! After the initial shock on Thursday of how much it is going to cost us to have a family we have managed to pull together the money to enable us to start in 6-8weeks. So with regards to costs I have a few questions:
Do the costs vary per consultant? ie we are currently seeing Dr Hossam Elzeiny, if we were to change consultants within Melbourne IVF would the price differ? Id like to try and get the $12,000 down a little but not by compromising on the doctors skills!
From your own experience do you have an approx full cost of your treatment? In our case this would be not including any rebates from Medicare.
Has anyone else used Dr Hossam Elzeiny? And if so, was your treatment successful? As I am new to this, would you say that he is a good consultant? Given that its going to cost us so much money, would you recommended using a different consultant who has more experience? Is there any records of each consultants success rates?
Finally (and probably my most worrying question) can anyone tell me that if our first ICSI cycle didnt result in a pregnancy and we were able to freeze remaining embryos to use on the next cycle, how much is it likely to cost us to try again? I understand that we wont have the costs of drugs, egg retrieval etc but I just wanted to get an idea of the costs going forwards should it not work first time because the costs are quite scary! Also given my age (27), but also the fact that my partners sperm motility is so bad, do you think we have a decent chance at least of a few of my eggs being fertilised?
Im trying to stay as positive as possible and accept how much it will cost us, but its tough. In the back of my mind I cant help but think what happens if we keep on trying and run out of money and are never able to have a family... However I have to stay positive to get through this.
I really do feel for all you ladies out there going through this, I have barely started and am feeling the stress and upset. Unfortunately we also have the $12,000 issue aswell! :doh:
Anything anyone can advise us would be a massive help - thankyou in advance and lots of :bluedust: to everyone.
Lindsay XXX