How to you get over it and move on?
I have being trying to get pregnant for a year and after just having my 2nd miscarriage I am feeling so terrible and full of grief. The worst of it is how I feel towards other's who are pregnant or trying to get pregnant or just had a baby. I have a good friend who has just started trying to fall pregnant and keeps saying how good it will be to have babies together. Yes that would be nice but I can't try to get pregnant for another 2 cycles now and my grief at knowing I soon will be congratulating her is really upsetting me. Also I was due to have my first baby late August along with a friend who is due any day. She keeps telling me I must not be doing it right and what am I doing wrong. I feel so awful that it should be me also. I am young, healthy, don't drink, don't smoke, financially secure, have a great marriage and I can't seem to understand why this is happening and how come other's have no trouble when I am doing everything right and still I am not blessed with a healthy pregnancy. I feel so punished. The grief is turning me sour and I don't know what to do about it. Inside I feel my friend who is now trying to fall pregnant will be like the last one. About to have her baby and I am still waiting for my turn. How can I get past this?
I have seen a specialist who has tested both me and my husband and said there are no known causes for our misfortune and to stop thinking about it and then it will happen. I wish it was that easy.
