Gutted - been denied a VBA2C
Hi,
I'm doing shared care and went for my first hospital appt yesterday. I'm looked after a team of people in the hospital.
The ob i saw said that due to the type of incision they made last time (i've had 2 emergency c-sections) that she says the risk is too high for me to try VBAC and i'll have to have a c-section.
I feel completely gutted and disappointed as this wasn't made clear 18mths ago and i've been looking forward to trying VBAC. DH and my mum have said 'oh, well the end result will be the same' but it won't be because i'll be cut open again and I really don't want that.
It feels like after the last 2 times of medical intervention this time i'll have absolutely nothing to do with the birth of my child and it just feels wrong at the moment.
Thanks for reading.