Help with TL and TR PLEASE!!!! :(

Hi everyone,
I desperately need help, Im hoping I am posting this in the right place.. If not I apologize.
Well, please bear with me.. :P
I have had 5 pregnancies, and 4 c-sections. The Dr talked me into getting a TL due to my kidneys and back probs, risking my life with pregs and all.. It broke my heart as I am very maternal, but I did it, I signed for it. He sat there and told me there may be risks during the procedure (it was being done at the same time as the last c-section, 3 yrs ago)
Since then I went to being so tired and lethargic and fatigued.. I also suffered with chronic indigestion and heartburn..
I never took notice too much.. Tried to tell Drs of several symptoms I was having and they told me recently I most likely have IBS..
Previous to the last c-section I had never ever had problems with my weight or indigestion.
Basically in the 3 yrs since having my son & the TL I have put on a whopping 40kilos!! I feel so unnatural, like it is not my body! It is hard to breathe, I feel like I am at the end stage of pregnancy all the time, I feel I have to 'roll' out of bed rather than 'get out'.. I am so depressed because of it all, the weight is horrifying. I have been to Dr after Dr and get told there is nothing they can do..
I have, all year had a extremely active lifestyle from hiking, rock climbing, power walking along the cliff tops, camping, body surfing and usual stuff all that 5 days a week.. my diet, I even stopped drinking coffee.. I dont like sweets and things so my diet was really good, green teas, water, bran & puffed wheat for breakfast, salad wraps with chicken breast and natural yogurt for lunch, soups etc.. for over 6 months.. walking daily, the works.. I would be lucky to lose half a kilo or a kilo a week which the next week I would put on..
My stomach problems are so severe I have had enough and Im really thinking in a way that scares me.. I just read up about TL today and for the first time came across the symptoms of PTLS and I was so furious, completely besides myself.. but happy in a sense that I now believe I KNOW what is wrong with me..
I was never ever told of any of this, all I was told was the possible risks during the procedure and also the chances of me falling pregnant.. My husband has also had a vasectomy.. I had my tubes clamped... I have always (even after my 4th baby) had a high metabolism and eaten like a horse and always been 52-55kgs all my life.. Now since I had my son and the TL I am 92kgs and keep getting bigger each week, I feel like im going to burst.. Can someone help me? Has anyone had this and does a TR correct it :'( Sorry for the length of this.. Thank you so much for the time to read it :'( I want to sue that flipping Dr for what he has done to me :'( xox

I'm going to ask the totally stupid question - what does LT and TR stand for?
I really want to respond to your post but feel that I need to know what they are before I do.

Big hugs to you
Sue x

Angel,
I have definitely seen thread about post tubal ligation problems around here somewhere but I can't find it right now. Hopefully someone will come in and point you in the right direction.

Hi, thanks so much, I really need help with this so bad :'( Im so at the end of rope right now.. TL is (tubal ligation) and TR is (tubal reversal) I just really need help :'( Thank you so much, I think I seen a post topic about tubal ligation on here, but I thought if peopel could relete to where im coming from to me? Thanks all for your support. Im so down and cant believe ive come across this condition after being told it is all in my head for 3 years. I feel so ripped off :'( In shock! xox

hi angel,

i had my tubes done in 2005 and have many symptoms i am having a reversal done next year, from what ive read some women feel betta some only have a few symptoms go away, if u go on another thread call ttc after tr the ladies there are so helpful, wuold like to talk to u further, its good to know others are going thru the same thing.

take care bel78