My 21st

I have thought about what all you lovely ladies have said about me doing things to make myself feel good. And i have decided that for my 21st i will go all out.

I'm not sure if you ladies are aware of the clothes shop called 'City Chic' its for those ladies out there who are a size 14-24. I'm size 14 and i was browsing their website and found the most gorgeous black dress that i just HAVE to have. I'll post a link to it (if it works) ***link removed***

I will get my hair cut short, i love Ricki-Lee Coulter's hair in her clip 'Don't Miss You' Ricki-Lee "Don't Miss You" Music Video Photos - Galleries - Hot30 Countdown

For shoes i am thinking these ***link removed***
But maybe not so high i don't want to fall over!

I am getting my make up done by my friends mum and she is awesome with makeup! I am also getting a spray tan as i am very white!! :redface:

My plans for my birthday are a girls night on the 4th (of december) and on my actual birthday (6th) just a family bbq or a dinner. My hot outfit is for my girls night.

What do you ladies think so far? I am open to suggestions but if you hadn't already guessed i want to look FABULOUS! :D

You go girl! The dress and shoes are gorgeous and with that sleek hair and spray tan, you will look fab :) There is no better time than your 21st to go all out!

I tried the dress on today and it looks great!!! I desperately need a tan because i have VERY white legs. The ladies at the shop said that the shoes i want will look great but DP doesn't seem to think so he said i should go with white.. but i cannot find a pair of hot white shoes ANYWHERE!!! :wall: it is very frustrating!! He said that the pink would be too much.. but i dunno i can't go black because that would be TOO black :confused: i dont know..

I need some opinions :D

I think it all look AWESOME!!!

I am hoping that it all looks good together. The shoes i'm a bit worried about i am not good in heels and especially when drinking so i might find some with a thicker heel. I'll also wear one of those 21st sashes i really want everyone to know that its my 21st :lol:

I'll be sure to post photos on facebook and post a link on here.

Don't go white shoes - pink would definitely look better.

Thats what i thought. White is just so... white :lol:

The pink shoes are gorgeous and im sure i could learn to walk in them. If not ill just sit down most the night or stand in one place.

Why not get glamour photos done too? I had them years ago and you are made to feel like a movie star! I loved my pictures they looked great.

My DD is having her 18th in November and we found the most gorgeous dress for her yesterday so I know the feeling of excitement, Jess wears VERY high heels all the time, I am not sure how!

I would love to do that, but depends if i can afford it.

DP owns a Canon 20D SLR with a bunch of really expensive lenses so i will ask if he can take some photos of me and my friends, he's a really good photographer. And i am asking each of my friends to bring cameras to take lots of photos. I am buying a big photo frame and putting photos in there to remember my special night.

I'm more of a flats girl and because im quite tall i have never felt the need to wear heels so i might buy my shoes in the next couple of weeks and spend a couple of weeks getting used to them. And i will invest in gel cushions and stretch spray (god send :D)

MY 21st was definitely the biggest birthday i ever, ever had ... mmm 30th & 40th were ok BUT the excitement & hype about the 21st birthday was soooo much better ... So, on that note i say " GO ALL THE WAY OUT " :dance::dance::dance:

... Would have loved to have seen your outfit, espesh the dress ;)

I made a joke with a friend and said i may as well look decent for one night in my life! :lol: and wearing a dress is definately me going ALL OUT!! :D

awww you go girl!! :dance:
you make sure you go out and have the best night ;)
i think you will look gorgeous no matter what you wear.

hope everything works out great, and have a ball.
x

Thank you :D

Best of all i get to see my little sister, she ran away to brisbane a year ago and i have barely seen her since. When we were little, when things were really bad we both talked about our 21sts we said that we would go out together with all our friends, we had hoped to have boyfriends and have awesome jobs. Although my life right now isn't what i had hoped for but being with her will make it all better, she is my bestest friend in the whole world and i miss her everyday :cry:

aww well then make sure you enjoy yourself ;)
forget about whats going on in your life and just enjoy being 21.
i was pregnant on my 21st so misssed out! you are going to look gorgeous.
remember you will have to show your sister a good time, get goodlooking males to buy you BOTH drinks! :D
never know if you both love hanging out so much she might decide to run back home;)
x

... i so understand your feelings for your little sister as i was exactly the same with my lil' sis, amongst the yelling & screaming of our parents whom were so unhappy with each other we would infact sit up in bed at night & i would read to her her favourite nursery rhymes & try so hard to make her escape our parents misery ... when it was time for her to turn 21 i went ' more ' ALL OUT then my own 21st for her to make sure she had the best ever time too (and she DID) :dance:

... you WILL have a fab time with your sis there as i did :hug:

Yeah it was like sort of a pact we had, we said we would escape from our household and we would live together work together and do everything together. I am very protective of her so i promised i would take care of her. But i guess i didnt count on her being so much more independent than i am.

I really hope my night turns out the way that i have been hoping for my whole life :)

you will do huni...forget all the crap thats going on and enjoy your day hun. you will look fab. enjoy yourself xxxx