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what the hell is wrong with me?
My baby is only a month old and im already thinking about the next baby, obviously im not going to do it any time soon, but idk wats wrong with me, ill be waiting til she's nearly 2 before i start trying again.. and in saying that..
DH doesnt want any more babies :(
guh.. i guess i have plenty of time to change his mind ;)
i remember the overwhelming urge after having DD1 to have another one!! glad we waited though, i didnt have them this time though!
I felt like that when ds was that age. Not now! We have had a few hard months with teeth, illness, sleep etc etc. At one point i was wanting to get my tubes tied lol. We have decided to put our number two plans on hold a little bit (were going to try when ds was 12 months which is less that a month away) as i cant fathom the thought of two under two.
we always thought we try again when DD1 was 12 months as well, but we just werent ready! she was 19 months when we conceived!
I think for a lot of people it's a hormonal feeling. I know I felt the same way too and in fact felt it after Elijah also even though I swore he was to be my last the whole way through my pregnancy. Now, I'm back to feeling he's my last but I did go through a period of time where I was oh I want another one... I reckon lack of sleep tricks our brains lol.
my DF and I are also wanting another one but i have to wait 18 months all up before another pregnancy due to the c section i had.
Dp said he only wanted 1! Then she hit a certain age and he was all up for another ;)
Ill be waiting til she's at least 2 before ill actually try for another, i dont want 2 under 2
:( lol
i hope DH changes his mind, im sure he will ;)
I felt like that for a few months after DS was born (I agree, I think it was hormonal LOL, and I had a great but fast birth and wanted to experience it all again) but atm I couldn't even imagine it, if we are lucky enough to have another (DS was IVF), I think DS will be 2-3 before we even consider it - unless a natural miracle occurs in the interim
I felt like that too, at about the same age. I think its hormonal ;)
At the moment, actually since about 8 months, we've been thinking maybe we only want one... lol dunno if thats hormonal hahahaha. We've decidied to talk about it in 2011 hahahahaha
i wanted one straight after ds and i didnt fall prgnant till he was 2 and a half so i think 3 years is a good gap as i only plan on 2 bubbas atm
i have felt like that since she was born........
its normal i felt like that before DS was born lol and i still feel that way hence TTC #2
I could have another one right now....but we are going to wait a while. We are getting married in August and would rather not be heavily pregnant or with a tiny baby then! :) Dont think il be able to wait much after april though to start ttc! :)