Cd 69 and very tender ?ovary

Hey girls

Im cd 69 today and I have the most incredible L side lower pelvic pain. Its not really sore like Im not in tears. Its more uncomfortable.

What should I do?

I'd go to the Dr NurseK and a decent one if possible. Get a referral to a gyno if they wont help you. You have had an ultrasound haven't you? Any chance your only ovulating now? Maybe AF is on its way or an emby is digging in. So many possibilities. I would see a Gyno though as you have been ttc for a while now and your cycles are long. Chances are you wont need any help what so ever to conceive but I would want their reasurrance that everything is ok. Maybe the Dr can run some tests to see where you are at in your cycle and give you a guide as to when AF is due or a BFP. Best of luck. Hope you get some answers soon or a BFP.

Yeah I had the U/s about a month ago

I have no idea whats going on and my dr wont send me to anyone until we have been ttc for 18 months :(

I think 12months is reasonable but 18months is alittle old schooled especially if you don't have text book cycles. I thought seeing as you occassionally have had long cycles they would be willing to refer you to someone that specialises in that area. If my Gyno investigated when I first went to see him I wouldn't have got into the mess I did (hence why I am alittle test happy lol) Hope you get answers soon.

hi sorry to butt in but has your dr checked for pelvic inflammatory disease nurse? i had been getting low pelvic pain and cycles that had a mind of there own and was last week diagnosed with P I D

Trubabe thats what I had which contributed to my ectopic pregnancy and when I seen the Gyno after almost 12months ttc and 2 m/c he said it was normal and to come back in a year. I also have no history of STDS which is why he said I couldn't have PID and didn't test me for it or blocked tubes, endo etc. Turns out I had the works. Don't want to scare you NK. PID doesn't cause long cycles. Mainly abdo pain and painful sex and low grade temps and funny fanny discharge (doesn't have to be offensive smelling just not quite normal) I didn't have the typical signs of it and was considered low risk or Gyno's words no risk. I think it definately warrants a Dr's appointment. Can you see someone else? You can come see one of the Drs I work with lol I'll make them see you. But in saying that they didn't do anything for me so maybe there useless.

i really reckon it's time to see a specialist to see what is going on with the cycles. that is waaay too long IMO.

just ask your GP for a referral to an OB/GYN. no need to really discuss it with them, just ask for their preferred OB/GYN (unless you have one that you know/like) and go from there. they will be able to be alot more helpful in regards to TTC and cycles than a regular GP.

this is second time ive had it.never had a std.apparently people can get it for unknown reasons and gynae told me it can mess up your cycles.this cycle and last have been about three weeks late.ive got other stuff wrong too,but some of that is because of previous pid and endo

Hi NurseKobeh

I don't know your history, but after reading your posts I couldn't not reply.

Any pain should be investigated hun - are long cycles common for you? I would be seeking out another GP to obtain a referral to a specialist sooner if you can. Don't let one GP obstruct you getting answers just because THEY want you to wait 18 months.

Can you contact a preferred specialist directly and see if there are any other options to see someone maybe?

Good luck :hug: and I hope the pain resolves for you.

Hi girls, sorry to steal the thread NurseKobeh but just wanted to ask Emmy and trubabe, have you found that you have had many issues with ttc with PID? I had been diagnosed with it after having my son and I am now thinking of ttc #2 and wanting to know if many issues? If too personal I will understand if you do not want to reply but not many stories I have read with ppl having PID and pregnancy.

Thanks

lucasmum I think it depends on alot of things. How long have you had it, do you know what damage it has caused if any. Did you have it before you had your DS or have you only just found out you have it? How did they diagnose it? My understand was you almost need a laparoscopy to tell you have it. You might be highly likely to have it but how do they know for sure? Is it from abdo pain, temps etc. Mine I had no idea, no risk factors. They discovered it when I had surgery to remove my ectopic pregnancy so yes it has affected my fertility. Thats the main reason I had the ectopic pregnancy as it had damaged my tubes. They think I got it after my second DD was born which was 3yrs ago. I started ttc in september 08, had a chemical pregnancy in Dec (never diagnosed by a dr just from having ++HPT, late AF then fading HPT and then bleeding) I then had another pregnancy in May 5months later which I lost also early which now they are sure was also ectopic and then finally my last pregnancy in July ending in an ectopic pregnancy where I lost my tube so its definately affected my fertility. My two DDs were concieved without trying on contreception so I would imagine I would have concieved quickly again if I didn't have PID. It has been over a year and no baby. I know thats not long in comparison to some people but it is along time compared to the "average" expected time to fall pregnant when actively trying.
My friend had PID at 16yrs old and was hospitalised for 2weeks on IV antibiotics. She has had no trouble ttc and having children. The rate of falling pregnant with PID is quite high it really depends on the severity if its mild, moderate or severe. Mine was classed as moderate to severe. I had had it from the birth of my child (assumed as I got really sick after I had her with high temps and pelvic pain) it was never treated until I had the ectopic in September which was almost 3yrs later. As we are still ttc I am yet to know the full extent of the damage it has done. Obviously we are hoping after antibiotics and tubal studies to flush my remaining tube we will now fall pregnant within the next 6months.
PID can be treated but the damage it has already done can not be repaired. We have treated mine and pray it won't return (as it can) The Dr who did my surgery recently said that I am healed inside (there is scar tissue but its from old injury) I have adhesions but he did say not to jump into IVF as he is sure it will happen within the next 6months and if it doesn't we will be starting IVF in 6-12months.
Feel free to ask any questions and Ill try respond as best I can. Having PID doesn't mean you will have trouble ttc but obviously it increases the risk of problems like blocked tubes and ectopic pregnancy.

hi lucasmum, from my pid i have scarring and blocked left tube.saw new FS last week and even though he reckons it wont work we are doing iui this cycle.he said im at higher risk of ectopic if i did manage to fall preg with iui.he reckons ivf is going to be our best chance of getting pregnant but everyone is different and you may not have an problems at all falling pregnant.i think the main thing is with a pregnancy after p i d is that drs will probably need to keep a bit closer eye on you in case of ectopic