How would you ask this on the invite???/
I'm thinking about having just a luncheon rather than a full on baby shower.
We don't need anything for number 2 but there are a few things that we would like to get eg. sunshade for pram etc. so things that can be quite expensive and i wouldn't expect my friends to pay for in full.
So I was thinking about putting something with the invite saying we don't need anything for the baby but if you would like to get us something, a gift voucher at XXX baby store would help us. (we have laybyed some stuff already) or should i just do it as a wishing well (or other creative baby related thing) ????