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Am i ready or not?
hi i had a miscarriage 6mths ago after trying for 2years, when i lost our baby i was devestated and still get upst when i see other pregnant ladies or babies. Everyday i just try and imagine how things would have been and how happy i would of been if i didnt loose my baby.
My husband and i have been trying since then but have had no luck and everytime i get a period i get depressed and upset, now we are booked in to see a fertility clinic on the 9th of feb, but im not sure if i am emotionally ready now dont get me wrong im dying to be a mother but im scared that if the treatments dont work im going to get really depressed again.
What do you think? what should i do? Does fertility treatments usually work? :crying:
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I suppose my only advice is to at least go and see what they say...
I look at my own situation like this: I can't be afraid anymore of hearing something I don't like or being in situations I wish I wasn't in. I think that by biting the bullet and going (if this is what you truely want) is the best thing to do. You know yourself you will regret it if you continue to put off going to the FS.
You need to be able to be mentally tough enough to take everything in, but you'd be surprised at how tough you really are. Give yourself the credit you deserve, know that you can and will handle what ever is thrown at you and you know it's worth at least going to see what the FS says.
Coping with a loss must be really difficult, and I am so sorry that you had to go through that :( I hope and pray for your BFP soon.
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Only you can know the answer to whether or not you are ready :)
Why do you think you are ready, and why do you think you aren't ready. Weigh up your answers and see if that helps you at all.