BF after breast reduction?
I had a breast reduction about 15 years ago and didn't BF DD6 due to mixed messages in hospital, no support from professionals and a lack of self education. The standard line (from her very first feed) was 'Oh, you've had a reduction. You can't feed. Here's a bottle.' This was followed by the next midwife insisting 'You must breastfeed. It's the best thing for your baby. Don't you want to do what's best for her?? You at least owe it to her to try!' (Yes, I am quoting word for word... I will never forget it!) On top of all this, DD was small, not very hungry and a disinterested feeder. When the MCHN visited the day after we came home she asked, 'are you BF or FF?'.... I promptly burst into tears and wailed 'I don't knooooow!!!' She suggested we continue with formula (even though my breasts were leaking milk) as we had already started down that path.
When pregnant with DS4, I decided to educate myself. I bought the book, Defining Your Own Success: Breastfeeding After Reduction. It was fabulous. I felt prepared and empowered. I was determined to give BF my best shot. Then DS was diagnosed on US at 20wks gestation as having severe renal abnormalities. When he was born, the importance of knowing that he was receiving adequate fluids outweighed my desire to BF. We comp fed from day 7 and continued to do so until he was 2 months old. A good effort, I think, but not the peaceful, settled BF experience I was hoping for. The stress... the stress... his kidney... am I going to damage it? He only has one!!! Must feed him enough... should I just put him entirely on FF??? Aaaargh!! Tried a supplemental feeding system but couldn't make it work... he'd spit out the little straw.
Anyway, DH and I are TTC #3, and I know I'm getting ahead of myself, but I like to be prepared...:) I'd like to hear anyone's experience of BF after reduction... successful or unsuccessful. Did you need to comp feed? When did you start? Has anyone taken Motilium to increase supply and did it work?? What else did you do to improve your chances of success?