little help PLEASE :S

hey everyone,
I'm over a week late since period due, i have a reg cycle somtimes a day late at the most, i keep getting neg test results(first morning urine)... but it isn't as easy for me to get to the doc for blood test as live far out of town... i havent got sore breast, but i did get dizzy grocery shopping the other day, my biggest concern is i have been getting quite of few pains in my stomach, somtimes centered, or to one side, or somtimes stitch like feelings, from time to time i will get a compulsion feeling anywhere on my stomach for a few seconds which i found weird. and alot of back pain not so much very lower back but low, appetite has picked up a little but not to much, carnt tell if i take a trip to the toilet more often as i already pee through the roof... also my sex drive has gone through the roof if that has anything to do with anything, once/twice/3 times not good enough anymore,, want more more more even if Ive had that much I'm too sore i want it anyway, please help anyone i have no idea, havent been trying for bub as too scared after loosing 3 already, but there is still a change as i don't use protection and I'm not on the pill or anything, i don't drink/take drugs ect... not overly stressed part from the fact of my sex drive is driving me crazy. any help would be great :) thanks for reading

I'm not an expert, and hopefully somebody wiser than me will be on later to give you some advice, but it could be a possible ectopic pregnancy from what you have described. I really hope it isn't, maybe do some reading online and see if you think so yourself, but I would probably be getting myself to a doctor hun :hug: Good luck.

thank you for your reply i realy hope it isnt, last thing i need after already loosing 3 bubs to a missed misscarry. last one in may last year which feels like yesterday :(
i will have a read up and hopfuly can get some advice, if this is the case do i need to get to the docs straight away or can i hold of till fri? thank you :pray:

Hi Horsemad
I think you should make a trip to see the doctor. Your symptoms could indicate a few things including pregnancy. And yes it could be an ectopic, however it could also be that you are pregnant. If you ovulated a little late then your levels may not be high enough to be detected by the HPT. Good luck hun

thank you for your reply, seen doc yesterday and got blood test today, he thinks I'm preg but blood test to be sure, if nothing is picked up on blood test i will go in for a u/s straight away, due to habitual miscarry, including a missed miscarry last year when bub died at 8 weeks but wasn't picked up till i was 16 weeks preg, everything seemed to be fine the sack grew just not bub :( well still no sign of period cumming, so fingers crossed on blood test if i am preg i hope everything is ok, thank you guys will keep you posted and let you know if i am :) or wat the test's tell me in a few days :):pray:

Hope it goes well for you, and we see your birth announcement in 9 months time ;)

goodluck hun, I hope you have a sticky bubba in there! :D

Horsemad any news?

test would be back, but as i said before i don't live close to town or doctors, my partner also works night shift 4 days on 4 days off kind of thing so he sleeps during the day. but Tue is his last night so go in wed and gets results really excited/worried as to what test says as again period is not here with no signs of cumming. let yous know soon :pray:

Fingers crossed for you hun

Good luck. Am crossing my fingers for you big time x

neg test, and another neg urine test, doc thinks im having another missed misscarriage, so now have to make app to have u/s let yous now when i get in and whats going on as soon as i know

Oh no. I'm still hoping that something comes up in your u/s though and it's just too early for everything else. That happened to me. Late period, neg wee test, neg blood test, but a week later, pos wee test and blood test. I so so hope everything is ok. Thinking of you xx

ok got in for u/s today at 2:30 anthor hr long trip to town... fingeres crossed :pray:
bad or good news i carnt wait till this is all over the stress is killing me. thank you NikW for the hope. just a few hours away till finding out though it feels like its days away :(
let yous all know as soon as i do when i get back home, if i dont need to go to hospitle.
thank you everyone :)

Will be thinking of you xx

nothing has showed up on ultrasound no pregnancy/cyst/ eptopic pregnancy. doc said to wait 4 weeks and come back, as if im preg it could be to early to detect about 3-4 weeks if ive ovulated late. if still no period then in for another blood test and U/S seems to long away. holding onto hope but at least i know now my health isnt at risk.

Oh Horsemad this has been an epic time of waiting and anxiety for you! Sending you lots of big hugs, and hoping that the next little while goes really quickly so that you're not tortured by the waiting.

Oh horsemad, I'm so relieved that it isn't bad news but all this waiting must be taking it's toll. I'm hoping against hope that you get your BFP soon xxx