AF off an on since xmas...

yes, i know i should go to a doc, but i just never seem to get there!

AF came back when DD2 was 4 months old (fully breastfed, DD1 was 12m before AF was back) so in Novemebr, then again in December, and its never really finished.

its been for days at a time.. then maybe a day or two break, then back again. i have no idea of when i O, so i have no idea where im at in my cycle. i want to have a pap smear, then go on the pill... but i just havent done it because of this never ending AF!

is there an easy answer for this? like, is it common after baby? we have DTD a few times in between (relying on withdrawal at the moment) so i have no idea if all this AF means im not pregnant.

TMI- it has been red, brown, small clots. no period pain whatsoever (which ive never really suffered from anyway.)

if anything, i'm just over wearing a pad everyday! has anyone else had anything like this?