having a bit of a freak out

ok so i'm booked into have a D&C this arvo- but have these thoughts of like what if the u/s was wrong like twice and my baby is still growing- and then i'm just going to go and get a healthy baby removed.

Is it because I wanted this baby so much, that i'm creating my own delusions?

I should be 10weeks, not going in for a D&C!

Also I was filling out paperwork and one of the questions was are you pregnant or think you could be pregnant and then had if yes how many weeks- I was like how the frick do I answer that question. I just put yes and 10weeks cos that's what it should be!

oh hun
no answers just big squishy hugs...

im sooo sorry your going through this.
let yourself feel whatever you need to feel, dont question why your feeling it just feel it.

Dearest Em,
I wish there was something I could say or do to make everything better.
If it were me, I would put down yes to pregnancy.

You have so many people thinking of you at this time. I hope your heart is filled with the knowledge so many people care.

Would it be too much trouble asking for a u/s before the procedure?

I have no idea what you're going through at this time, just want you to know that I'm always here to lend an ear.

Thinking of you :hug:

em hon, my heart is filled with sadness. Just sending you big hugs and lwtting you know that I am thinking of you.

I would also put down yes to being pregnant. Like CBG said... if you need to, request a further u/s to make sure. It is ok to feel like this. Go with your feelings, dont question them, just let them be.

Oh hun.
I know I was feeling the same and I was m/cing. So I went to the GP and got another u/s (3rd one) and then blood tests and they all confirmed that I had lost the bub. I did mc naturally so a little bit different.
hugs babe.
Kate

em... I just want to give you a hug right now. I remember feeling all of those things when I lost my first baby. At admission when I went in for my D&C I got to the "could you be pregnant?" question and just cried. DH took the forms from me and took them to the woman on the desk so I've got no idea how it was actually answered.

I'm so sorry you are going through this. :hug:

BW