saddness

I fianlly found a man who i am in love it took a year but i did become pregnate. Was finally happy with my life but something just did not feel right after i found out that i was pregnate was in and out of the drs office the whole time. At 8 weeks i found out that i had lost the baby at 5 and half weeks had a d and c on friday. Every day i find myself crying more and more. I keep asking myself what did i do wrong........

angelfish, I am so sorry for your loss, this is a very difficult time for you. :hug: I'm sure you haven't done anything wrong, sometimes things just happen for no reason. Our son was stillborn at 35 weeks and no one could tell us why, it's a hard thing to except having no answers. Big hugs to you sweetie, be gentle with yourself. :comfort:

I am so sorry for your lose. I just dont understand you get given something and it gets taken away i am so ready right now

I'm so sorry for your loss. I had my D&C last Monday and I'm still the same having my up days/moments and my downs as well, little things will see me crying.

I'm sure it's nothing that you have done big :hug:.

i thought it would get easyer and its not. I dont know if its becouse i am still bleeding? but i also see myself getting obessied over getting pregnate again is this normal

I am so so sorry for your loss :hug:

It will take time, don't feel that you have to rush the grieving process, take your time.

xxoo

Angelfish big :hug:, it is a very hard time, I know after my first loss, I was obcessed with falling pg again and we did the very next month, it was really a quite stressful pg, I was constantly worried if everything was alright. This time I'm swinging the other way where I'm actually quite frightened to try again even though it is what I want more then anything.

I think any type of emotions are quite normal at this point. Once again big :hug:, just keep letting out your feelings.

thank you very much for your responses i am getting no moral support from my boyfriend.

just wanted to post and say im so sorry for your loss, there are many women here who can help, give you addvice and just be there to talk to. I hope you find the support you need to help you at this time....and in the future!! Hugs to you, be kind to your self! XX

Sweetie - I am so so sorry that your much loved and wanted baby is now with the angels. Grief is a really tough journey, it's a very hard road to walk.

Can you talk to your boyf? If not make sure you come in here to talk and also find a person you can talk to face to face. For some women they find SANDS meetings really helpful. That might give you an outlet to talk and feel supported.

You did nothing wrong... there are no answers sometimes, like Samcougar said. You will find a way through your grief, in your own time and your own way. Allow yourself time to heal.

Go gently.