What to write on a wedding card?

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I would still write everyone's name in the card, particularly if the couple to be married are family. :D

I'd put the kids names in too

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I'd write my kids names too as the gift we give would be from the whole family, not just DH & I.

I'd put kids in the card too :)

I don't think so nic, they are invited to the ceremony after all. If they were to get a sarcastic connotation then they are probably reading into it way too much!

I'd say the children, as they are part of your family and the gift and well-wishes are also from them.

If they take it as rude, that's their concience saying that they should have invited the whole family to the reception and, therefore, not your problem. Of course, if you write the children wished they could have seen the pretty bride all day, that would be a bit rude.

i've never thought anything of it - always thought it would be natural to include everyone in the family as the present is from the family kwim? the only time i would exclude DD is if it were a work friend or someone that doesn't have a relationship with DD at all - but for family, for sure, it's from all of us.