u/s if you had your time again..would you?
As the title says...if you could have your time again..would you go through the numerous u/s' that are done whilst pg?
When my SIL first found out she was pg I asked her in conversation if she would be having a 12 week u/s to which she replied no as she has no fears of having a child with downs and that her baby is already loved no matter what shape. I smiled when I heard it and cried at the same time.
She has lived with having a younger sister with CP, epilepsy and multipul other complicatoins form her birth yet she didnt care what a 12 week scan would say. I cried because I didnt have the strength she did at the time to say no.
Me..personally. No. My experiences all varied with all 4 children. Each one placed completely different and sometimes unneccessary stress on me...they didnt bring any peace or forwarning of complications that did occur, during the pg and at birth.
Im not starting this to start a huge argeument...Id just love to know if you had your time again...would you still do it? What benefit do you see off having your u/s'?