in the same boat (almost)
hi
i have a similar situation to you - my hubby also has poor morphology and we are about to start our 2nd round of IUI. The difference is that I have PCOS. Unfortunately, the first time round didnt work and i was devestated - but the flip side is that the more times you try, the better your chances.
For the IUI itself, we actually ended up making a day of it. After giving his sample, DH and I went to a nearby supermarket, got some breakfast and ate in the park next to the clinic. It took a bit of pressure off just hanging out with DH. His reaction when the procedure started was priceless - i think he hadn't realised how invasive it was. he was kind of all huddled up in the corner of the room - so we had a good laugh about that. Also the staff were very friendly and tried to make it as painless as possible.
good luck!