If I only knew then what I know now
Hi everyone,
Thanks so much for all your positive responses. I just hope alot of other ladies read our suggestions. I believe that if you have had a good 6 transfers (or less with no success ) you need to be totally checked out, because as we all know IVF = expensive, depressing, and just plain stressful. Why should we go through more than we already have.
Women need to have the following checks:
Laperoscopy & biospsy (nk cells) at the same time - the doctor is already in there, get it all checked out
blood tests - the long 13 vials -
Then if there is nothing to treat go further with transfers. I also believe in only doing blasts - alot of day 3 embryos die off even before they get to blast - transfer only the strongest ones - survival of the fittest - why not do what nature does.
I just get so frustrated that there isn't some kind of set protocol for ladies to get where they want to quicker - if men had to go through IVF like we do - I am sure a set protocol would of been put in place by now. Ladies do yourseves a favour - if oyu are not getting the results, get it all checked don't waste 2 1/2 years like my hubby and I did and look back with regret on wasted time, tears, money and energy. If i only knew then what i know now
FYI, the cost of the biopsy was only my doctors charge at $200 and the co op fee at the hospital for $50, I do have private health insurance and i have not received the bill from the pathology yet but when you consider that my hubby and I have spent $50,000 so far who's counting ?
This is the best blog to get the word out there to all you amazing ladies, we need to ask more questions and demand more results...all my luck to you all, don't forget who is paying their bills...