Do i do another cycle?

I lost my baby on wednesday i was 5 weeks pregnant, my nurse and doctor said if i wanted i go straight back into another cycle, we said we would have a month off but im having second thoughts, im not sure when AF will arrive but im so down about my loss i just want to move on, my DH said the decision is mine but i just wanted some advice if anyone has gone straight back in after a m/c? and if they got a BFP doing so? or is it better for me to have a break?
Any advice would be appreciated xx :rolleyes:

ME 24 & DH 25
ICSI
STIM #1 BFN
FET #2 BFN
FET #3 BFP :angel: 5 weeks

I'm sorry, I don't really have any advice, it's such a personal decision.
How are you feeling physcially? Do you think some time out might be good - take a month or so to just live and not think about ttc perhaps?
All the best :hug:

Hi oneday
I'm so sorry once again. I agree with marcellus its a personal decision and you have to do whats best for you. After my miscarriages I went back almost straight away. I have 2 DD (conceived through IUIs) but in the last 12 months have had 3 mc (2 ectopic, 1 after food poisoning :() . I only waited maybe one or two weeks after each one but as I don't have a cycle I never had to wait a whole month for another AF to come. For me the thought of having a break was worse than trying again so I felt that it was best for me to keep trying. I have heard many stories about women being more fertile after a miscarriage and falling pg the following month and carrying baby to full term.

I don't want to worry you, our stories of hcg levels and spotting sound a little similar, my situation is hopefully different, but just in case.... With my last pregnancy (the ectopic one where I had my tube removed) I knew something was wrong, my levels were doubling but slowly, then they started dropping (390ish to 375ish), I also had some cramping pains and spotting, my FS said I would MC, and although I had some bleeding I never had a proper AF. A week later I made them re-do my blood test as I felt pg, my levels were over 1080. Then next day I had the emergency surgery as the pain got much worse!

I hope you can come to a decision that you feel peaceful about, its a hard time and will be thinking of you. Don't be too hard on yourself.

Hi milly's mummy, i think i have decided to start when i get AF i believe im a much stronger and happier person when im trying to get my dream rather then just sitting here waiting for nothing! The nurse didnt seem concerned about a ectopic pg, once i found out i had lost it and stopped taking my medication the next day my breasts stopped hurting and the pains also stopped too? i am having another BT tomorrow to confirm. I am unsure if iv had a period as i bleed for a week and a half it has now stopped since friday but occasionaly iv had a spot of blood when iv gone to the toilet. Im sorry about your losses :( that must have been really hard. Thank you for sharing your experiences with me it has giving me a clearer decision xx
Marcellus- Also thank you for your advice, it is a hard decision but i think its best for me to start as soon as i can because at the moment i just feel horrible x

ME 24 & DH 25
ICSI
STIM #1 BFN
FET #2 BFN
FET #3 BFP 5 weeks

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I lost my baby on wednesday i was 5 weeks pregnant, my nurse and doctor said if i wanted i go straight back into another cycle, we said we would have a month off but im having second thoughts, im not sure when AF will arrive but im so down about my loss i just want to move on, my DH said the decision is mine but i just wanted some advice if anyone has gone straight back in after a m/c? and if they got a BFP doing so? or is it better for me to have a break?
Any advice would be appreciated xx :rolleyes:

ME 24 & DH 25
ICSI
STIM #1 BFN
FET #2 BFN
FET #3 BFP :angel: 5 weeks

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Hey, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, But I would say go for it, having a baby is like bring a miracle into the world as you probley feelt., take every chance you have trust me!!.. you will regret it if you give up all together. I have me finger and toes crossed for you darlz!! :) GoodLuck

Hi oneday

Hope everything goes ok for your BT tomorrow. With my bleeding I only had "thin" blood in the week I bled before my lap, but with previous miscarriages it has def been a horrible heavy flow, it can be hard to tell at times though.

Even though its an awful time, I'm glad you feel comfortable with your decision. Everyone's different but I always felt better if I was doing something aswell. I was 23/24 when we first started fertility treatment too and at first I thought it would never happen but then all of a sudden we got our elusive BFP, hopefully it will happen for you too! Wishing you all the best for your next cycle!