would you use this name....
So, my Grandmother is awesome, DH and I love her and she was always there for me when i was younger, (mum and dad divorced, mum worked full time, grandma looked after me most the time, we lived with her for years) . My mum and Grandma dont really get on too well, nore does my sister and step dad, i mean they see her alot but they are all moaning about her and saying she does annoying things....she is 84! (but thats a whole other thread!!!
We were talking about names and thought about using Angela, whichis my grandmas name.....but i just know my mum will get funny about us using that name, but i know my grandma will be touched, and she is very special to DH and I and wed love to use it.
Really to understand why im worried about using it i guess you would need to understnad the relationship between my family and my grandma. And i know in the end if we like the name we should use it, but i dont want to cause conflict and make my grandma feel uncomfortable or make my mum have bad feeling towards my baby.
Would you use a name if you thought it might casue some wierd feelings!