Pregnancy after genetic/chromosomal loss question: CVS?
This is a question ONLY for women who have lost a bub to a genetic or chromosomal disorder. Please don't respond if you have not been in this situation.
I am happy for responses to be via PM if you want to keep it private.
DS died from a genetic disorder. We were hoping a prenatal test could be used in future pregnancies via a CVS to determine if the next bub is affected. We have just found out that won't be possible. The only way we will be able to tell if the next baby has what killed our son is possibly via increased scans in the late 2nd/3rd trimester (it's not detectable before then).
Given my age, future babies are apparently at increased risk of other chromosomal disorders like T21, T18 etc. I know a few of these could be diagnosed via CVS.
My question is, if you've had one baby die from a disorder, did you or would you automotically have a CVS in a future pregnancy to see if the next bub is affected by anything? Would you do the screening first and then decide? Or would you not risk it, no matter what?
I am just thinking this through. I don't want to birth another baby that dies. I also don't want to risk a healthy baby by possible infection via CVS, however low the risk. We can't test for ARPKD, but we can test for T21 etc. Bub could still be clear for a chromosomal disorders and have the genetic disorder (and vice versa). If either were detected early on, we would not continue the pregnancy.
I would appreciate the thoughts of anyone who has been in a similar position.
Thanks