I am so emotional ;(!!! I have even had second thoughts about all of this

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February 9th, 2011, 04:57 PM
Sav2011

I am so emotional ;(!!! I have even had second thoughts about all of this

I hope this doesn't sound crazy an awful but I'm really struggling this week... I'm so emotional and my partner is getting upset cause I'm so upset and angry all the time ;(

All was going well till last week but now I feel like the initial excitement of finding out im pregnant is over (ours was unplanned) and I also have way to much time to think about whether I'm happy and is this really what I want? We are not married, and have only been together 10 months and I feel like this has all happened way to quickly... Hopefully this is just pregnancy hormones :o
February 9th, 2011, 05:09 PM
Mrs P

Hi Sav2011,

Sending you a giant :hug:

It's normal to be emotional etc during pregnancy - those hormones are playing havoc with you at the moment!! I hope things settle down for you soon hun.
February 9th, 2011, 05:18 PM
*LittleMissSummer*

BIG :hug:

Its the hormones, its completely normal. I was the same. I was also in denial i didnt believe i was pregnant until i felt the baby move and that is the most wonderful feeling ever.
February 9th, 2011, 05:21 PM
lissy

Yeah :hug: dahl, I'd say its the hormones, imagine a pregnant woman with PMS & you get my picture. I had the mood swings & the doubts.
It will pass though after everything settles & your body adjusts. :hug: hang in there.
February 9th, 2011, 06:45 PM
luna moth

Oh yeah, hormones. i had second thoughts for a while, and ours was fully planned and long awaited. it's very overwhelming. You can do it though, you'll be fine.
February 9th, 2011, 07:04 PM
emc2

I had only been with my partner/boyfriend for 6 months when I found out I was 8 weeks pregnant. I've actually had more trouble coping with everyone's advice than the pregnancy itself.
February 9th, 2011, 07:06 PM
The[cookie]Doctor

My no DH and I had only been together 3-4 months when I feel pregnant with my DS.

Sometimes things are meant to be.

I am sure you will be fine - in my case I had untreated AND&A which manifested into severe PND&A as well, so if these feelings go on, please seek some outside support; counselling etc. Chances are it is just your hormones but an unexpected pregnancy was harder to cope with than I expected... just remember there is professional support, just in case!!!