What's the general rule in hospitals re: breaking waters? Or does it vary?
I just met up with my friend who's living in Shanghai, and met her gorgeous son to whom she gave birth about 7 weeks ago. She was telling me she got to hospital and was 3 cm, they gave her the epidural, and then broke her waters a few couple of hours later; baby was born about 5 hours after that. I didn't want to press her for details of why she had her waters broken (she's had a pretty traumatic pregnancy and some miscarriages before/between live births, so I just go with what she wants to talk about).
I'm just surprised they broke her waters... is it common? With both S and T, the waters didn't break till very late (ie soon before second stage), and there was never any discussion of breaking them earlier than that. My friend wasn't in labour for long (she'd only gone into labour earlier that day) and it was spontaneous onset, so I suppose perhaps they did it to speed things up a bit?
I wondered if it were different overseas, or if I've just never had the experience and that it's really quite common to have your waters broken, rather than having it happen by itself...