Our next (bigger) tree-change? (Long)
I apologise in advance. This will probably be a bit over the place. Hope you can make sense of it! :redface:
As you may or may not know, we have closed down our business (due to injury for the Man) in the town we lived in until about two months ago. Pop. about 100,000 and growing, so we wanted out of the town.
We moved here (renting again), 40 minutes away, pop 1200 or so. I choose this town for the primary school (and there are about 170 students) where DD will go next year, and I have always loved this little town. I always thought there was not much here, but it is just so lovely, and I always wanted to move here (but being a city girl, the Man suggested we move the the town we just left instead of here, about eight years ago, to see how I went living out of the big smoke).
The only family we have is the Man's Dad and Step-Mum who live about an hour and half to two hours away from here. We don't see them very often, even when we lived at the last place. And my Mum and Brother, who live an hour from here (was forty mins away from the old place, and Mum says she will not drive further than the old place to see us).
The Man has seen a (combined) business and house for sale in a TINY country town, which he would love to get. The business (a cafe and B&B) has closed down, but he had a rather in depth conversation with the owner of another (non-competing) business in the town, and she thinks a re-start would be viable. It's three hours drive from here (3 hours 20 min to my Mum, and 3 hours 45 mins to the Man's Dad). Population is 160, and there are only 11 children in the school (which is walking distance to the house).
Proposed Little Town (PLT) seems rather like a ghost town. The servo is closed, as is the general store. The post office/milkbar has some general store stuff I think. There are a fair amount of trucks that rumble through (we went there again today to inspect the inside of the house/shop), and apparently on weekends there is a need for feeding some drive-through tourists. And the primary school kids. There is no other take away food in the town (except maybe in the milk bar), and the second hand store sells cold drinks. The whole area is farming.
The house is an old three bedroom, plus the big room out the back, with ensuite which was the B&B. You have to go outside to get into that room (let's call it a bungalow shall we?), so we would look at making that the Master bedroom when the two little kids are a bit bigger. In the meantime, they would still have to share a bedroom, all of which are quite small. The first room behind the shop would make a convenient playroom/study while the shop is open and the kids are at home. The lounge room is small, and wouldn't do for much playing (there is only one living/lounge room, plus the 'playroom/study' [which is actually the entry for the house by a side door behind the shop, and thoroughfare between shop and dining room]). The bungalow would make an excellent playroom before it becomes our bedroom. A temporary wall needs to be taken down from between the kitchen and dining area to make the dining space a bit bigger, but that will be easy. The shower is in a cupboard (yes, I also thought :o) in the laundry space, along with the toilet. These three spaces need to be reworked, including moving doorways and walls, to create a real bathroom (and adding a bath, and bigger hot water service which is also in this space), which would still leave a good sized laundry. The rest of the house would need repainting, and maybe some re-plastering (but its quite livable). It has heating and cooling. There is a four car carport and single car garage at the front, and from the back of the block, another garage/workshop is accessible. I think the land is about an acre. The house is on bottled gas.
The house needs work, yes, that I know. I am not afraid of hard work. I suppose we could use the shop as a dining room, and make the lounge in the house a bit bigger by taking down a partial wall and blending it with the dining area.
The cafe would be a very basic thing. It needs furniture and fittings (though really not much when it comes down to it). Its not a high stress job, nor is it physically challenging. And a repaint and a new sign.
I checked out the school today, I think its okay. (But I still love the one here) They do swimming in the summer (thank goodness with all the dams around), and maybe I could do some cooking classes with them too (I already have my WWC).
I really really really wanted to bring my kids up in a little country town, and I thought that where we are now was the one. So my brain has switched off on the topic of moving anywhere else. But . . . . ?
I currently drive 45 to 50 minutes each way to work at the moment. There are three major towns that take just under that time to get there from PLT. Jobs are few and seemingly far between. I think I found three that I could apply for just now.
I don't have many (IRL) friends, and the few that I do have, I have not seen since moving here. There's always facebook I guess.
This would be a good move, if we can finance it. The affordability to buy would probably be the only realistic chance of us owning our own place. Repayments are less than what we pay here in rent!
Oh, how do I decide on what is the right thing to do? I think the Man has already decided that he would go (with $ ok'd), he's just waiting for me to decide.
How did you decide?
Is there something else I need to be considering? Or am I being too over-analytical?