[Vent] Life just sucks sometimes

Just found out that my SIL is pregnant again. She has one child already who was conceived with no trouble, pregnancy with no issues. She is now pregnant again after conceiving with no trouble. Now I don't wish her or any other pregnant woman ill at all, but having just had my fourth recent miscarriage, seven losses in all, and two seriously crap pregnancies (very grateful that they resulted in my beautiful daughters) I'm just wondering exactly who I p*ssed off to get what seems to be a whole lot of bad luck in comparison??

Sorry for the whinge but needed to get that off my chest. My gorgeous DH has been away for weeks with weeks still to go and I'm feeling extremely miserable anyway, so this was not the kind of news I wanted today!

Oh hun.... Big hugs to you :hug:

Awwww sweetheart :hug: So heartbreakingly hard. Do they know about your losses hun?

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I'm sorry, it hurts I know.:hug:

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I'm sorry hun :hug: I hope you get to experience at least one great, hassle free and easy pg too one day.

huge hugs huni....its soo hard...lots of love xxx

I'm so sorry for your losses and crappy pg. :-(

Hugs sweety. Its so very unfair. I ask myself the exact same questions.

Sometimes its just too much to bear isnt it.:hug:

Thanks ladies. I'm so grateful there is a place I can go where women understand the pain.

Tan - yep, she knows what's going on. I guess that's one of the reasons I'm really upset/angry/bitter. The way she announced it was pretty hard to deal with. I guess its one of those things that if you haven't had a loss yourself, you really have no idea how much of a knife through the heart someone else's pregnancy can be.