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Feeling Fat..
With DD I was so in love with being pregnant. I LOVED gaining weight because i was excited for a big belly. This time, I feel so fat. I am about 19 weeks and look about 3o weeks. I am not a big girl, but my stomach muscles are so stretched out from DD...I feel like the end of the day I look 6 months pregnant..
Its bringing me down.. I dont feel cute...I have already gained 6 pounds
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I feel your pain hun.This is my 5th child & my stomach muscles don't like me anymore lol!I have been relatively fit with all my other pregnancies (walked 12 plus kms a day with my last one ) but last year i was suffering majorly from depression & put on weight & became a bit of a hermit & of course wasn't actually planning on getting pregnant again so i have really blown out with this one & already look big & pregnant & fat .There isn't much i can do about it right now except try & get some exercise & eat right so i'm not going to worry about it until after the baby is born.At least i can say i'm not fat ,i'm pregnant lol.I'll worry about the just fat part later:D
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I know exactly how you feel. I also loved being pregnant and having a fat belly with my DS last time. This pregnancy i am constantly sick, have put on 5kgs already and am only 14weeks, and im so tired all the time. As much as i am so excited to have another baby and have my family complete, i also get down as im a tiny person and my family keep saying to me ill be the side of a house soon!
I guess im just a naturally active person so feeling sick and tired all the time makes me down as i love feeling good and getting out and doing things.
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The Mrs - Sorry your feeling down.. No advice just :hug: (Also FWIW I have put on 9kgs already and Df say's I am as big as I was with the twins!!)
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What a meanie DF! ;) I would sock my DH if he said that...I try to tell myself that maybe because I already was pregnant with DD that my stomach muscles are stretched out lol
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Lol, he didn't say it meanly, he was looking at my stomach and said it as an true observation in his eyes lol.. I was a bit shocked but oh well.. If he had said my a$$ was getting fat though.... Different story Lol
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DH lovingly rubs my belly and tells me how fat I'm getting all the time ^^;
being pregnant when you have on to look after is much harder I think. That first pregnancy is definitely the
"honey moon" pregnancy! I enjoyed it a lot more than this one, which makes me feel a little guilty because this will be our last also.
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helle- I totally agree! 1st pregnancy was definitely the honeymoon pregnancy. I loved every stretch mark and pound gained :) With this one..I know what to expect..and its not that awesome anymore lol
Blessed- haha..oh man..dont even get me started on my a$$ lol. I am a pretty small girl but when I get pregnant my a$$ thinks it is pregnant as well. I think it is due to my hips getting ginourmously huge...lol
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I feel exactly the same - I loved being preg with DD and loved that I showed early and had a beautiful big bump. This time I just feel fat! My belly seems huge already and I feel really self-conscious of it because I'm still so early in the pregnancy and don't think I should be looking this big for another couple of months! I haven't really put on much weight, just seem to have a big bump already.