Where to from here?!

Well I have been searching these forums and would appreciate any thoughts... My youngest baby has just turned one & since my AF returned around 4 - 5mths it's been horrible. Really heavy, long - 12 days, I get really emotional just before hand. My biggest thing is AF starting before 28 days, I was on Microgynan (sp?) 30 and couldn't get through the pack. I went and saw my doctor, had all the tests, hormones and it all came back normal.
Doctor put me on Trifeme but it's been the same, this is the 3rd month and again didn't make a full cycle before AF & now Im still having spotting (dark red, sorry TMI) 12 days since it started. Im so very over this all, I've go NO libedo which just makes me feel awful as I love my hubby very much and really would like it back! lol

Anyhoo, I was just doing a bit of research around different pills, Mirena, Implanon etc. I would be happy to do away w AF for most of the year and really would just like to feel normal again (whatever that means) :rolleyes:

Has anyone experienced anything like this? What helped you?

One thing my Doc did suggest was St John's wart but it said on the pack it can interfer w the pill & our family is complete so I was reluctant to do this in case of an oops!

Thanks in advance, very much appreciate anything you have to say about this stuff..