How do you just move on?!
I am very angry at a close family member of mine, I was on my mums facebook and happened to look at her messages. There was a message from my aunty in August of last year that really upset me. Now my first born son was born at 23 weeks and 3 days and passed away a few hours later, it was very hard. 5 months later DF and I fell pregnant with our rainbow baby. Im not to sure how far along I was when my mum recieved this message but I think I was about 4 months.
the message went like this
"Hi, just thinking is Sharlene alright, is she getting some help to cope with loosing her baby? She is writing alot of depressed stuff on facebook, no one taking away what she been through but for her to be well she needs to move on. She is having another baby which I presume she planned and is happy about,things in life happen for a reason. We dont always know why but we do need to move on for her own health and health of her baby. Do you feel she is coping? Even mum (my nan) said bout it at the weekend and I dont know if facebook is a place for putting it all out there".
She is so stuck up her own ass that she has no bloody idea how hard it was for me to get through DD's pregnancy. How the hell do you just move on from watching your son die in your arms :( It hadnt even been a year and she had the balls to say this. I now wish I had've seen this sooner I wouldve got right up the b(*&h. He is my son and no matter what anybody says he was and still is my child even if he is watching over me. Did she think that DD would replace my little man? That is not the case I have 2 children 1 watching over me and 1 with me no one will ever take that from me.
I guess I just needed to vent as you can see im not very happy with my aunt, her husband is also an ******* writing **** on my facebook that didn't need to be there. How do I deal with this knowing that someone who has nothing to do with me has said this? Do I just ignore it?
Some people especially family are just so damn insensitive.