So unfair :(

One of my closest friends lost her baby at 16 weeks. I didn't know she was pregnant as she kept it hush hush as there were complications in the pregnancy. She had lost a baby at 14 weeks before her DS.

I feel so incredibly sad for her, i want to be there for her but i sense she doesn't want to talk to me because i have a baby which i completely understand.

Then i heard today one of the women in one of my mothers groups had an ultrasound yesterday and there was no heartbeat, she was 14 weeks :( :(

Life is just unfair and so cruel to those who are so deserving.

RIP little ones may you watch over your mummy and daddy xoxox

I lost my little boy at almost 20 weeks, so I can understand your friends pain. She may not want to talk now as being around others with babies is extremely hard to do. But in time she may want to talk. Once someone gets me started talking about my little man I don't stop but it took awhile to get me to that point. Just be there for her when she needs it, thats all you can really do.

And yes life can be incredibly unfair........

:hug: hun how very sad for both of them.

I guess all you can do is send a text and just let her know that your here if she needs you.

:hug: Im so sorry for your friends losses

Life just isn't fair. I got into the scary part of youtube yesterday, somehow got from gastroschisis stories to memorial videos.
I don't understand why babies have to be sick. Why healthy babies just die. It's awful.

=( RIP little ones.

let your friend know you are near by and thinking about her, and whenever she is ready you are there for her.

So sad. Much love to you all. R.I.P little one xxx