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So I got a bit of bad news today... I was on my way for my appointment for transfer when the doctor called to say that out of the 9 eggs collected 5 went on to be fertilized however when they looked this morning none were good to transfer so transfer cancelled.
So now what... Has anyone experienced this before. I am 43 so being pragmatic but could do with some encouraging comments as to whether to keep going after this. Thanks!!
=( I haven't been in that boat a ours were able to be t/f, but I can understand how heartshattering that must be. *massive hugs* I'm sure there will be someone around here with advice after being in the same boat. but am thinking about you.
Hugs I couldn't read and not say anything. Our ivf cycle resulted with 2 compacting morulas on day 5 so no blasts and they chose to transfer them. I knew in my heart and from the looks on there faces at the clinic that no one held out much hope. I remember wishing at the time they had of cancelled us. Sorry I know it's not the same as you. Of course that cycle didn't work.
The emotional toll of ivf is huge so I hope someone can give you some good advice or share some positive outcomes with you.
Such a hard situation :hug: it's a really hard place to be in, and I couldn't read and not respond although I have no advice just lots of best wishes and :hug:s
i have been in that situation but mine was following genetic testing, we had 4 embryos tested and all 4 were abnormal, it is so difficult to deal with :hug: for you
I'm sorry to hear you had that happen. We had the same thing happen with IVF#4 (7 eggs, 6 fertilised, none made it to transfer (day 5)). Our next cycle we only had 2 embryos (from 5 eggs), so we did a 2dt and that cycle gave us DD.
Similarly, my SIL had nothing to transfer (on day 5) with her first IVF and is now pg after transferring a healthy blast for their second IVF.
I hope you have similar success with your next cycle. :goodluck: