Re: Centrepay confusion...
I just remembered this thread. It's all just come around to bite me on the bum.
I haven't worked since before Christmas. I managed, because I always had a bit of extra cash on the off week. 4 months of not having that & I'm struggling. I'm getting by, but I'm so sick of putting people off :(
I can give this much today, coz I owe from a few weeks ago... no more til next fortnight. Oh hang on, next fortnight I need to do dd1's birthday & Easter! And my phone & insurance come out by then... How about you wait a month for me to pay you for the bottle of gas I just asked you to deliver with no cash up front... Coz we kind of need to cook & have hot water. I could cancel the kids school camp. How fair is that :(
I'm very grateful to have such understanding people around me , but I'm struggling with this right now in myself. I'll get ahead again, I almost am. I just hate owing money & having to drag it out over weeks. A little bit every week feels more productive than a chunk every fortnight.
And I've tried fortnightly food shopping. Lol I gotta have my bills caught up first to have that money spare, then I gotta stop the kids eating it all!
I can't wait to be back on top! Get DD's birthday out of the way & it'll all work out :)
Re: Centrepay confusion...
If you are really struggling with not shopping weekly, put half your shopping money in another account and don't touch it til the opposite week. It takes self control, but it can be done. It's not really the centrepay arrangement that is causing the grief, even though it feels like that is an easy target to blame that.
Maybe it's worth talking to a financial counsellor. Unfortunately, it sounds like this is your life for the foreseeable future, and you need help to learn to make it work for you. You should be able to speak to centrelink to get advice on what organisations can help you with something like this local to yourself. I know the service is often available through local charitable organisations. If you don't get help and make changes, you are going to be living from advance to advance to sort yourself out, hanging for the supplements to get yourself out of strife, instead of having these as bonuses of sorts, to allow you to have a bit of a splurge kwim?
Re: Centrepay confusion...
There are no charity organisations near me. Though maybe they help over the phone?
Nah, I'm just a bit behind at the moment. Like I said, I'll get there.
I've had 3 school camps to pay for, my PO box was due, I ordered the kids a sports club bag each that took 6 months to turn up, we have school photos coming up, we have our regular bills, ds's birthday was 3 weeks ago & dd1's birthday is 3 weeks away, plus Easter. And I didn't get around to paying my basketball subs 3 months ago when I should've :doh:
It's just because that has all come in at once, then I needed gas as well. All in the last 4 weeks & money only goes so far.
These aren't regular expenses, they're once a year things that just have bad timing.
It's not really the fortnight thing that's the problem. It's me feeling I should be making payments more than every fortnight. But like I said, these people understand & accept that.
There are things that come in on the wrong week & I've already used money I could've held onto for whatever it is. Or we'll get invited by friends/family to go somewhere on that week, and it's usually not go, or they offer the funds to do it. I hate that :(
Right now I have money on that off week for shopping & fuel. My ftb week is all bills, school stuff etc. At the moment, til I catch up, there is nothing left over to hold onto. That's what's hard. Taking care of everything then something little comes up from the school, but the money is already gone IYKWIM.
I've been without work for 4 months. It's only the last month this all hit at the same time that I've felt like I've lost a bit of control. But I'm getting there. These things aren't things charity organisations could help with either. They're not necessities.
And I have a feeling I'd be expected to drive 2 hours away to the nearest major town... But I don't know. I've not tried to find out here TBH.
I just needed to vent about it, coz stressing won't fix it ;)
Re: Centrepay confusion...
Some of the organisations will help over the phone. I was speaking to my electricity company to change centre pay stuff only yesterday's nd they offered connection to a financial counsellor. So they are available all over the place. Definitely contact centrelink. Post office isn't an unforeseen expense so given it's come up and you weren't prepared for that expense, you may benefit from help kwim?
I'm not having a go at your organisation skills - just offering help to get you to a position where this stuff doesn't knock your budget around so much when it comes up
Re: Centrepay confusion...
I know. I'm just not real good for asking for, or accepting help. I was referred to a financial counsellor a little over a year ago for my power, but I managed to get on top myself.
The last time I contacted a charity organisation was back when ex was in our lives. When there were times that there was no food, and no birthday/Christmas presents. Because his 'needs' came first. Scraping the bottom of the barrel.
I have nothing to complain about. I have absolutely no reason to be in this position. I can afford to live. We've never been in a better position since I've been on my own. I think it's a bit of pride. I got us here, I've done well so far. I don't want to feel like I've gone backwards...
No harm in calling I guess, is there. See what they say.
Re: Centrepay confusion...
Did you get student assistance for the kids school camps? I know in NSW we have a fund at each schools to help families pay for camps/uniforms/extras.