Fertility Friend question

Not sure where this should go, it's a question about moving coverlines but also about ovarian cysts so feel free to move it Moderators if it's in the wrong place, sorry!


OK, I have an ovarian cyst. Effectively knocking out one ovary untill I get it removed end of Feb. I have irregular cycles atm because of this. Anyway, I have been charting with FF and it's keeps moving my coverline from CD 11 to cd55 and back again. CD 11 I had the pain on the cyst side and heaps of pgcy symptoms from the cyst and had investigations etc and agreed to remove the cyst as soon as poss (which turns out to be feb) and -ve blood test etc. Anyway, a week after the pains everything settled down a little and I waited (and still am waiting) for AF. On day 54 Dh and I dtd and also cd56. I had symptoms of Ov on day 55 and as I said, somtimes ff moves my coverline to day 55 which fits into the pattern. Now I am cd 64 so 9dpo (if I did indeed o on cd55) and my DH is convinced I am pg again. I am moody, my boobs ache and have actually leaked on sunday night, I get all teary all the time, I am tired ALL the time, I have nausea at diff itmes during the day. But HPT's so far are -ve (not that that means I am not pg. My EARLIEST +ve HPT was something like 24DPO with DD#1 and latest so far was 8weeks PO). Is it possible that due to the cyst I tried to O from that side on CD11, but didn't release an egg, hence no period, but the other side O'd roughly on time/ a week or two late (cd55)? and that I am pg? I guess I am asking if anyone has had FF move their coverline and turned up pg? I am just so confused as DH and I believed I was unable to concieve due to the cyst stopping O, so we didn't use any protection. He's not worried about it if I am pg. Heck he's teasing me cause I am the one who will be worried! He keeps telling me I am pg. I need to test or see a dr. I keep telling him I'm not, I can't be, it's just the cyst, that I haven't even got a firm coverline! I want more babies, DESPERATELY want another baby like NOW, but DH has said not yet, and even said he doesn't think our relationship could survive it just now as we are renovating etc. Yet he doesn't seem concerned about the possibility and seems to be happy telling me I am pg.
I don't know if the symptoms I am having is due to the cyst (looking it up, some of them certainly appear in cyst symptoms), but he thinks I have too many for it to be the cyst, that I am pg. I want to believe him, I want to be pg, but I don't want to as well (if it risks our relationship)IYKWIM. He has said if I am I am and we will work it out. He would prefer we wait till Aug or so as by then we will have done a lot of the renovations and have less stress...
Is it at all possible I am pg? Help?!

Oh Katkins,

It's horrible "not knowing" isn't it. I'm not sure if you are pg or not, sometimes our bodies play cruel tricks on us.

Certainly if you have been DTD there is every chance you could be pg. Why don't you go and have a blood test, that way you will know for sure one way or the other.

Sorry I can't help with the cyst bit.

Hoping everything turns out well

Ann :D

thanks Ann. I know I should just wait and see how it turns out. In a week or two I should either have more symptoms and a BFP/BFN or things will settle down again. I guess I just wanna know now as DH has been ribbing me. I keep thinking he's joking, but then he insists he's serious and it makes me wonder. *sigh* I don't wanna get a BT just yet as I don't wanna seem like I am always thinking I am pg. It's prob just this stupid cyst again playing tricks on me. I can't wait to have it out and hopefully get a regular cycle back!

Hey Kerrie, can you put your chart link on so we can have a litle squiz??

Sarah, I'm not sure how to..... I don't know where the address for the link is..

On the page where you enter your info, there's the menu on the left hand side. Go about halfway down & there's a link to "sharing". A menu will pop up & you click on "home page setup" right at the top will have the address for your FF page.

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/165742

Thanks Sarah!

Well done Kerrie :)

Gosh it is a tough one isn't it. I'm thinking it keeps changing to CD55 because CD54 is the only time you have any CP info so that's when you have the most fertile signs. Other than that I wouldn't be convinced you Oed at all sorry Kerrie, there's no really obvious shift in temp, but I could be wrong.

I agree Sarah. But strangely I've been feeling terribly "wet" down there for about a week. I keep thinking maybe AF has finally turned up, but nope. It's also hard for me to do temping properly as I have two beds, one at work for 4 days a week and one at home for 3 days. It's strange as my home temps are always slightly lower than the work ones.... I just don't know. John keeps telling me I'm pg. He's been saying it for 3 days now. With jess, I was convinced I was and he kept telling me I'm not. So it does make me wonder. Having said that, my temps aren't special at all, but I FEEL hot all the time. GRRR. so hard when you have NFI what is happening to your own body!