still on clexane-bub 4 mths old-having rib resection
Just thought I'd update in case there was anyone reading this who may have had the same procedure, or if anyone is just interested.
So, where I left off from last time....I chucked an emotion fueled tanny and my specialists finally wrote to each other. It was decided unecessary to stop clexane at 36 weeks and continue with it until 2-3 days before c-section date. I kept pushing for the possibility of natural birth, which both my obs and I thought I was going to get when I presented to mat ward at 32 weeks with blood loss and dialation to 1cm. Ob was of opinion that prem babies come quickly, so he thought I'd have her that night, but bleed and dialtion stopped and after scan I was discharged 2 days later to bed rest and back on clexane.
The next week again I had blood loss accompanied by pain, so rushed back to hosp. Same thing again, this time had dilated to 3cm, but again all stopped and was discharged once more to strickt bed rest and back on clexane.
Again, at 34 weeks no blood this time, but contractions. Presented to mat ward and admitted. After internal exam contractions were 2 mins apart and looked like bub was on her way! Contractions stopped after 1 hour and I (and mum and DH) slept in delivery suite over night. In am ob on call wanted to do internal again even though the last one strengthened the contactions and put me into active labour! I refused (and wondered about her ob skills) and was discharged once again and back on clexane.
Had only been home for 1 day when readmitted with more contractions and excrutiating pain! At this point I was fed up and wondering if there was something wrong with me (why couldn't I cope with this?!) I was monitored and told they were not contractions but the intense pain were from my 'irritable uterus' (right). I couldn't believe that such pain was not labour as this pain was worse than the pain experienced the day previous when I was in labour! After consulting with ob he suggested that we bring date for c-section forward by 2 weeks so Sophie would be born at 36.5 weeks. After feelings of guilt wondering if this was right thing for bub, as she had handled the whole ordeal fine, it just seemed my body was wanting to deliver her early! Ob assured me at 36.5 weeks she would be fine, perhaps a bit sleepy, but fine. I met with psych to share my worries and finally decided that it was the best thing to do (although, at that stage I was unable to make even the most simple of decisions, so I don't know how I managed this one!)
So, at 36.5 weeks Sophie was delivered by c-section. Far from the all natural water birth Ihad dreamt of, but there were no problems with her and I went back on clexane after the birth.
As suggested, she was sleepy and spent 10 days in ICU nasal gastric feeding until we figured out how the breastfeeding thing worked.
Now, 4.5 months later I face a 1st rib resection (take out my first rib) in 4 weeks time. Spec opinion is very high risk of another clot with subesquent preg if I don't have this procedure. I will be in a lot of pain when I breastfeed her, but I don't want to take that away from her. Of course, there is no garantee that I won't get another clot, but here's hoping.