Our baby has died

We went for our 12 week scan today and right away I could tell something was wrong - there was a blob instead of the disco dancing baby I remember from my previous 12 week pg scans.

Despite pg symptoms continuing and an enlarging tummy (and uterus) the baby died around 7 weeks.

Now I have to have a d & c.

This baby wasn't originally planned, and DH & I viewed it initially as a disaster, but now I am sad - had got used to the idea, and was actually quite excited. We had told a few people too - now we have to tell them the bad news.

Oh Sally, that is sad news and I know just how you feel except my symptoms had disappeared just before the ultrasound. I hope all goes well with your operation and recovery.

The girls on BB are so supportive and please pop in to the TTC after miscarriage and loss forum whenever you are ready.

xx

Sally, I'm so sorry to hear your terrible news. Sending our love and support to you and your family right now. I'll be thinking of you over the next few days (while you are having the D&C) and will light a candle for your little one.
xxx
Marydean

Sally so sorry about your loss.. I to had pg symptoms and growing tummy and my baby died at 8 weeks.. Huge hugs... We are always here if you need to talk...

I'm very sorry for your loss Sally

Sally, I am so very sorry for you loss, my heart goes out to you and your family. :hugs:

I said it in another forum, but once again, I'm so sorry for your loss

Sally,

I am terribly sorry to hear of your loss. Please take care of yourself.

I'm sorry Sally that this has happened to you :(

Sally, I am so sorry sweetie, take care hun.

Luv Spring :hugs:

Sorry to hear of your loss.:pray:

So sorry to hear of your sad news

Dear Sally, I'm very sorry that your baby has died. I will be thinking of you over the next few days as you have & recover from the D&C. HUGS.

Sally I am so sorry for your loss. Take care :hugs: I will be thinking of you and your family.

Sally, I'm so very sorry for the loss of your baby. Very sad news. Sending you lots of *hugs* and thinking of you. :(

Sorry for your loss.....my thoughts are with you and your DH.

i suppose you are numb right now, what an absolute blow.

Hope you are around lovely people who can hug you tight, like us on belly belly would love to do if we were with you now.

keep talking about it, your grief is real.

Thanks everyone. I am going for my D & C tomorrow. Still feel shocked. I didn't expect to feel this sad. DH has agreed we will ttc after AF comes. This pg had been a shock, but the idea grew on us.