taking things as they come

from now on i am going to "TRY" to take things as they come. the last few cycles i have stressed myself out soooooooooo much. So for at least this cycle i am goign to try to just bd every 2nd day or when we can and just take it easy and not worry about wat days are fertile or not.
i want a baby bad but i think it is effecting me even more trying as hard as i can and not gettin anything then just going witht he flow and nothing happening.
i am not putting up a ticker for this cycle i am goign to try to forget about way cd or dpo i will be. i know this will prob last up until the day b4 i should o and i will be tryin to work it all out lol.

Sassy thats a great plan you have for this cycle... TTC does get very stressful im sure everyone can tell you that... at the start of all my cycles i make plans to try not to stress as much but it never works for me lol.... hope it does for you tho
Good luck .... hope you see a BFP very soon

Sassy that is a great plan! Just enjoy the BD I say!!!

Me and DH can't concieve consciously, it's just too stressful for us - I try not to tell him when I am O'ing and just go with the flow.

#1 was concieved because we were reckless and were told it couldn't happen anyway - well, it did first time ever - we went on to lose that baby. After losing a baby, we were desperate to concieve again - only trick was it didn't happen - again, we were told it couldn't happen without medical assistance - so, we gave up TOTALLY - well, I found out a week later I was pregnant and we now have a gorgeous DS who lights up our life.

GOOD LUCK!

yeah i am trying to trick my body damn hope it didnt see that lol

Sassy - may be you can type with your eyes closed so that your brain doesn't see what the fingers are typing. Maybe you can trick it that way!!
Or may be I am just being stupid :lol: because then your messages would look like this:

afhbfds ajl gfsjklfs fdsk jks ajaj ash fds gfd sa ghd ghj ukdsfk kl dsa ujk fsdsa gobideegook

Seriously though - hope it works.:D

We tried that, after about 6 months when it hadn't happened I had a few months of constant tension. Every AF would have me in tears. Then I decided to just stop, and not
worry about falling preg. After a few months of that I slowly crept back to my needing
self lol...but my mum tried for 10 years, when nothing happened she gave up and admitted
defeat..and bobs your uncle there i was!!!!

Sassy that sounds like a great idea.

I too used to stress about not being able to conceive - until i had enough. We stopped "trying" so hard and i concentrated on other things in my life and then it just happened. Hope it works for you too!!!