So sad to be here

Hi all,
I have just found out my hcg are falling, guess what? I'm only 6 weeks so i guess i shouldnt feel too bad, but been TTC for 2.5 years and fertility treat for almost a year, so i'm so tired and sad. Just wondering if anyone knows how long you have to wait before TTC again. When i rang the clinic today for my results, they asked if i had any questions but couldnt ask at the time. I really am so sad to be here and so sad that there are so many angels on these threads, its really not fair. Ive just been to the shops and probably being over sensitive i couldnt believe the amount of mums screaming at their kids (dont worry i do it to (son 4 y.o.) If anything good comes from this i think i will love him a little more (if thats possible):) I wish everyone here the best of luck and i guess the best things come to those who wait lol.

Poor you, its a difficult time for you and your DH. My 1st m/c I had AF once afterwards and then got pg with my DD so it can happen quite quickly. I think most drs advise one normal period after m/c before trying again. Good luck.

I am sorry for your loss :hug: Most dr advise that you can TTC as soon as you are mentally ready and physically after AF. Good luck!

I'm so sorry Scoobie, things were looking so good initially :)

I am sorry to hear of your loss. I agree with what Lynn said on when to TTC again. I found it easiest to get straight back to TTCing.

Thanks everyone for your replies ifeel abit lame posting in here when i read MC's at much further on than me and my heart breaks for you all, there are too many reminders everywhere. I'm still waitng to MC i really hope it happens soon i hate the feeling of still being pregnant, but not. And i just want to get straight back on the band wagon hopefully. Good luck to you all and thanks sooooo much for the thoughts:D

Hey Scoobs....
Fancy meeting you here love?;)
God how hard is this eh?
I too have been looking at everyone elses posts and thinking,I have so very much to be grateful for. I like you already have one child and even though that helps enormously,you still have every right to grieve for the ones that might have been.:cry:
I am struggling big time to deal....took today off work and tommorrow too,am going for a session with councillor.don't want to take too much time off work,but can't face going there yet? Also am worried about MC....I just want it all to be over....and don't!!!!!

hugs to you darlin!
claire

Hi Scooby
It dosen't matter how far you are it is still heart wrenching!!!! You feel as though all your dreams have come true and then BANG!!!! Its gone.

Sending lots of hugs.
I have been told that it is best to wait till you first "normal" AF to TTC just to make sure everything is OK.

I have 2 little poppets and I cherrish every day with them (even when they gang up against me or through paddys).

Take care and look after yourself
chris

i am so sorry for your loss, scooby. allow yourself some time to be ready and take good care of yourself. m

Scooby, just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you as you go through this really hard time :hug: