just dont know

i hate that this point of time when all you think about is could i be
well im on clomid 100mg and this mth i had really bad cramps on day 19
i dont know what date to say im due for af as if i go by 28 days from my last period i im now 2 days late but i seem to be late every mth and have been putting the dates into MY CYCYLE each mth and it says im due to get af in anouther 3 days so i really dont know what to go by and i dont know if i did O or when i did O so it makes things hard

This mth we havent been trying as hard as i have had alot on my mind with family matters so i dont think i would be but then there is that chance still been there

Last mth from day 28 i got sore nipples and had alot of cm and i was neg but im getting this again now so i dont know

any tips or ideas would be great
kell

Hi Kell

I am also 2 days overdue now - did a HPT yesterday and it was BFN - I have had sore bbs and weird twinges for the last 2 weeks or so which was unusual for me so I really thought that we had a good chance of finally being pg.

I do recall reading a thread recently about ladies experiencing the same thing as me but not being pg. Some months they have really strong symptoms whereas others they don't. I think it is just mother nature's way of playing with our heads!

I wish I could give you more information. GL.
Chezxx

While I was TTCing I had some months where I had really strong symptoms but wasn't pregnant. It's almost like I was talking myself into thinking I was pregnant. When I actually was pregnant the only symptoms I did have was mildly sore BB's, bleeding gums and stuffy nose before I tested positive. Have you had a dip in temp? I had dips in both my positive cycles after I started temping and that for me was a dead give away.

Good luck.

Hi Kell.

When I was on Chlomid I found the same thing. Some months I was sure i was pg as AF was late and I was feeling tender. If your charting I'd say go by what it says as your due date because charts usually work on averages. So it would take the average length of your previous months and calculate when AF is due. It can be confusing and frustrating but I think it would be better to wait the extra 3 days and know that your not testing too early.

How long have you been on Chlomid? Is your doc still testing you at cd21 to monitor whether you are ovulating. If not get yourself an OPK so that you have some idea of when you are ovulating.

Wishing the best for this cycle. Hope you get your BFP.

Tina