Doing my head in a little bit here!!....

Hi girls, i have been lurking for some time now and thought i would bite the bullet and finally post my question.
I had a natural miscarriage on the 30th March :( at 11 weeks. I only bled for a week and the bleeding stopped on the 5th/6th April. I have not been charting my cycle this time round as i had the mentality that 'if it's meant to be then it will happen' so we were just doing our thing. However, i noticed that i had some EWCM on the 9th and 10th April so this would mean that it was on CD 10 and 11. So we BD'd on CD 11 but i went straight to the loo afterwards and pee'd (usually if i'm trying, i will hold the legs up etc) so i guess that didn't help.. then we BD'd again on CD14, CD15 and CD18 (once again not really trying) and during this time i had pains from CD 16 through til CD18 like they were ovulation pains??. HOWEVER!! on CD 20 i noticed when i wiped (sorry TMI) that i had some 'gooey' clear EWCM so i investigated a little further and i found a clump of jelly-like CM that hadn't made it's way out yet!! Usually if it was sperm my CM would just be watery/little creamy. So we BD'd on CD20, 21 and 22. Since then CM has been watery but not too much, moist etc but not creamy. I have taken a few HPT's and all come back negative. So i guess i am asking, do u think i ovulated on CD 10 and 11 or was it on CD20?? I have been feeling a little nausious here and there- could all be in my head lol and my nipples are still veiny and little sore.
I guess i should just wait for AF to show up but i also guess some opinions would be nice :)

Sometimes AF can be late or not show after a m/c but also you can get pg so can't offer any real opinion on whats going on sorry!
Hoping for a BFP for you, I got pg 2 months after a m/c so there is hope.

I tended to find that when AF was due I was actually still moist and not dry. Usually you go dry when AF is due and with all my pregnancys i stayed moist.
I M/C at 5 weeks and fell straight away, so it is possible to fall again. My cycles were long ones to so my positive didnt show up till quiet late. I think i 'O' on day 20 and i think you normally 'O' around day 15/16. I hope i havent confused you but what im trying to say i guess is its possible to fall preg after a m/c and not all cycles are the same. Mine was a 5 week one not a 4.
Good luck anyhow.

Thanks heaps for ur opinions, i guess all i have to do now is just wait it out. my CM was a little creamier today so i am still moist, i just am not sure when i ovulated as im not tracking my BBT this cycle, aaah the joys!! lol im Settling down about it all now and trying not to get my hopes up and thinking for the best but thankyou and i will be sure to let u know how i get on! :)

Only time will tell. Just wanted to say don't worry about weeing after DTD - I always do that immediately afterwards and it has never stopped me from concieving but it has sure kept those nasty urinary tract infections away.

Satya: Thanks for lettig me know that u do it as well, unless i am TTC full speed ahead then i will go pee! I just can't stand all that leakage all night, on the sheets, oooh gross :lol: