How do i get through it?

Hi all,

New to this site and in need of support of others who have been through this i guess....

I went off the pill Nov 07 and conceived early Feb 08. We were over the moon that it happened so quickly considering I have PCOS. Week 9 I had a scan to check that all was going well and discovered i had a blighted ovum and was going to m/c any day. Needless to say, we were completly devestated and heart broken. The Dr went though everything, that it was just something that happens and that there is no expanation for it. 3 weeks later I still had not had a m/c, so went back to my GP because i was both physically & mentally exhausted. He referred me to the Royal Womens Emergency Dept and i had a D&C the following day. the Dr suggested that i wait 3 cycles before TTC again. Half way through my 2nd cycle at the moment and i'm still finding it extremely hard to deal with, especially when i see other pregnant women and i just think, why? Why did your pregnancy continue and mine didn't? I just feel numb all the time and completly filled with sadness. i can't speak about it without my eyes welling with tears....

Sorry for the long msg, but just want to know how others are feeling that have been through the same and how to deal with it?

Hi KittyKat,
Welcome to bellybelly hun.
I am so very sorry for your loss.
I hope you get the support and advice you are looking for.
:hug:

hey kittykat
firstly i want to say welcome to bellybelly and secondly.
i am really sorry to hear about your loss. i understand how extreamly hard it is to deal with something this big because i have 3 misscarriges of my own. but please now that everyone here is amazing and will always be there for you just to even talk.
be strong and no that everyone here will be there for support

me - 18, partner -19
tyson and kate mar 15th 06 :angel::angel:
hydie sep 18th 07 :angel:
:ttc: