Wedding, honeymoon and breastfeeding
DF and I are getting married next year, around Nvember, which will be Charlotte's 2nd birthday.
Initially I wanted to BF until around 2 years, longer if possible.
We will be going on a honeymoon for around 2 weeks, and Charlotte will be staying in Melbourne with my mum. I want her at the wedding, but I also want to be able to drink at my wedding, hens night! I dont want to have to worry about expressing on the honeymoon, or leaving milk for her while we are gone...Does that sound selfish??
Part of me is thinking that it would be the perfect opportunity to wean her, and the other part of me is worried that I am being selfish and putting my wants ahead of her needs. (But I really would love not to have to worry about these things and, quite honestly, get drunk on my hensnight- it will be a while since that has happened! lol)
Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How did you BF and do the wedding/honeymoon thing?
ATM I am leaning towards weaning her as of the wedding, having our last feed on the wedding day, a nice ceremonious ending to our BF relationship, I though that would be a happy way to end it...
(This is all supposing that she doesnt wean herself by then of course) But I really would like to have some notion/plan before we get there....
Hope that made sense!
HELP!!