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I have two beautiful boys and i would love to try for a pink one, im just not sure how to raise the subject with my husband, we have just bought a house and things are fine i just dont think he is thinking about it, and im afraid that if i do say something he might say no, any advise on how to approch this would be appreciated, also what i have to do to get a girl.
thanks
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Welcome to BB!
I can't give you any tips on how to approach your hubby, but there is a great thread about gender swaying here: https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...ation-6-a.html
Best of luck :)
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1st of Welcome to BB
Its a fine line we have to tread isn't....
well after we had our 1 st two BHL was done I said I was done while PG as we found out DD was a girl so thought great 1 of each we can stop... I think it was about an hour after she was born that I looked down at her and said to my BHL she not our last, LOL...
I dont think he thought I was serious but as you can see we now have 3....
Now that we have 3 I said thats it I am done but a year ago when BHL was in a very loving mood I said " Hunny I have been thinking "
Thats all I had to say as he guessed the rest thats right I want a 4th but we wont TTC until next year, not a week goes by without me saying something about our 4th just to remind him that we have agreed to a 4th... As he gets cold feet about it sometimes but in the end he is happy if I am happy...
He is your DH so be honest telling how you are feeling even if he isnt happy to start with just bring it up ever now and then to let him know that it is something that isnt going to go away... but you do have to ask yourself do you only want a 3rd because you want a girl or would you still be happy if you had another boy...
There are gender swaying group in here I will be back with a link
* snap * Trish got there 1st