Am i being selfish or impatient?

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I can't offer any advice other than to say go with what you think is best for you DH & your family!
Hope all goes well with TTC for you :)

I think that no-one else can make this decision for you.

Having said that, if it were me...
I would wait until my DH found a job. money, isn't everything, but not knowing when or where it is coming from can burden even the most alturistic or people.

After that i would go for it. Your sisters wedding is important for her, but I think she is being selffish expeccting you to put off being pregnant for her wedding. Having said that, if you are pregnant at the wedding you should be prepared to stand down as bridesmaid, and allow someone else to step up to the job if that is what your sister wants.

but like i said, this has to be your decision, and what is right for someone else may not be right for you.

We had a 2 year engagement and in that time two of my bridesmaids conceived and had their bubbas. I would never have asked them to put their family on hold for me, but then everyone is different ;) I think talking to her would be the best thing to do.

I'd also be inclined to wait till your DH has a stable job. It shouldn't really matter but if you want him to be able to have paid leave when bub comes along he needs to have 12 months with his employer to be able to do that. Plus it's reassuring to have financial stability.

number 6 could I please have one of your money trees

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