Any got a BFP and don't know how? TMI warning

Hello,

I am waiting for miss AF to arrive and have just been pondering a little bit.

DH and I are using the withdrawal method atm and I have started charting again. This is my first month charting post pregnancy and it seems that we DTD on ovulation day. My cycles have been very long post pregnancy and this month is no exception. Interestingly I have had a small spotting eposidose on day 29 and now I am on day 32 and my temps have gone higher. I did a hpt on day 30 but it was negative.

DH is very certain that he withdrew in time.

I have no pregnancy symptoms so I am expecting AF to show any day.

My question has anyone had a oopsies whrn they thought they were safe?

Hey Bekz, I was on the pill not the mini pill but the proper one, on double doses because of how bad my periods were. So I use to just keep taking the pill to avoid af because they were so god awful. Wasn't feeling well one week so decided to go to the doctor.. and bingo 10 weeks pregnant.... lol.. lets just say the ride home with dp was a very very quiet one you could cut the tension with a knife

We were using withdrawal when DD1 was a baby. DD1 came along coz I was useless at taking the pill & we were both too lazy for other things.
We thought we were really careful, but at 8 weeks I did a test & got a bfp.
It was totally unexpected.

Yep :D

Weren't doing withdrawl though just thought I was too far away from Oing to get PG. The little swimmers lived for 4 days till I O'd.
Yes I know they can live for 5 but in all my TTCing it took long enough trying to catch the egg closer to O day so I just trusted that it wouldn't happen for me that far before.

yup, altho no withdrawl method tho. i wasnt even thinking abt it and then bang i found out i ws prg.

I'm with Raven, must be how we got our little girls. :D

We normally use withdrawl or condoms, but this particular time my period had gone longer than normal, close to 14 days, well I'd had a period for a week then was spotting for the following one. We'd had a few drinks and thinking that I'd just finished Af thought it was safe time. Nope, obviously not. Swimmers stayed in there for the few extra days and so Abbey was conceived !!

I conceived both our girls when I Oed at least 4 days after dtd too!!!!! But we did not use withdrawal as we were ttc

This time it looks like we dtd on o day but we withdrew

My SIL got pregnant twice unexpectedly while using the withdrawal method!

Sorry if this is TMI but I remember been told in SEX ed LOL yes that long ago... That the pre-cum that a man produces when DTD will have a few swimmers in it so the withdrawal isnt a very reliable method of NOT getting PG... so if you DTD on O then you could very well have still got that egg even if DH did pull out it time...

Yep. I'va always had that in the back of my mind when we do it.
I mean, stoopid me is only relying on bfing atm!
I'll get my needle soon. I will...

Tali - I knew that pre ejaculate can have a few stray sperms...but we don't think of that do we now!!!!...oh yeah and school was way too long ago for me:)

Hey Bekz - glad to catch up again and see that you are doing well. We are using the minipill at present and am still bfing and havent even had AF since TTCing Caden so not much advice I can give, but wanted to send :hug: your way. Would you want a BFP? I just did a HPT today as I vomitted this morning (which is very very rare for me) and like I said, havent' had AF and have had a few other strange symptoms going on. Needless to say, with all the precautions we take, plus never DTD that often anyway, I got a BFN, but still, there is always the possibility. I know too many friends who have ended up UTD with the withdrawal method.

Good luck hun!