Important (to me) GBS Question
At my mw apt 2 weeks ago, I was supposed to go off and have the GBS swab test, and then if it came back that I have the infection, I would have to have the drip during labour, as you might all well know.
Well, I became very distressed when the mw told me that I needed to go off and have the test. Its not the test that bothers me, its the drip. I 'had' to have a drip after Steph was born, and it made me very upset, I cried the whole day and could not even pick up my new baby while the bung thing was in my arm, even while there was no iv drip in it.
My fear is that if I need to have the drip, I will not be able to relax enough to give birth, my body will go into meltdown basically and I will have to be rushed off for an emergency c/s.
The mw told me that if I feel so strongly (upset) about potentially having a drip, then not to do the test, and that they would just monitor the baby's temperature for 48 hours, and then printed out on my notes that I was refusing to have the test. I saw the same mw yesterday, and queried her that I didn't refuse the test, just the antibiotics if I have the infection. She said it is "easier" for the other mw's at the birth if they just read that I have refused the test and they won't argue so much that I need the drip if I have the infection. KWIM?
Should I go and get the test from my GP?
If I do have the infection, what can happen to the baby if I don't have the antibiotics?
How common is the infection?
I feel guilty about not doing the test now (I verge on bursting into tears everytime I think about it), as when I spoke to the Man last night about it, he asked "what choice do I have" in terms of baby potentially being sick or not?
Another question, if I'm due on the 6 January, doesn't that make me now 39 weeks? The mw said yesterday that I was 38 weeks, using their circular date calculator, which if I am is very annoying, because everyone else at all my apts have told me 6 Jan, and family have arranged leave to help me from that date, not the week after. Sorry, little vent there.
Please help!